Is female cumming or squirting a myth

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  1. Erosmore

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    I have had and am still having what I would call a healthy and happy sex life. I must admit that I am promiscuous and have had a lot of partners but I have never had a partner who has squirted vaginal fluid like I have seen in some porn films. I know that it is possible for a build-up of fluid in the vagina but whether the build-up is enough to cause an outburst like that I am not convinced. On the films it looks like urine. Are there any girls out there who can tell me whether they have experienced it and give me some sort of conclusive written proof.
     
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    Most 'squirting' in porn films is faked, but real squirting does exist, even though it is very rare. I have been squirted on, and the fluid is not urine, it is odourless, colourless and quite slippery, like dishwashing detergent. When it happened, it surprised the hell out of me, I was going down on a casual friend and rubbing her g-spot and then my wrist was wet. It wasn't cupfuls, more like a couple of tablespoons, but it was enough liquid travelling far enough up my arm for me to know that it was the real thing.

    Now that's one female ejaculation out of countless partners and thousands of sexual encounters.

    Curious at the time, I researched it, and there are a couple of ingredients. First up the woman must be really, really aroused by her partner. Secondly, when she comes it will feel like she's going to pee, and she may hold it in unless she knows enough to let go. If she lets go, she'll be like my Claudia, she'll ejaculate on her partner. And it will be a bigger than normal orgasm, and her partner will be surprised and flattered and a whole lot of other things as well. Claudia, I knew her well enough to know she was the sort of girl who'd ejaculated before, so she knew to let it go.
     
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    Female cumming

    Thanks for that, as I have never experienced it I wondered about its validity. I know that many of my partners become extremely wet and well lubricated but never to the point of this ejaculation. Thanks for your excellent insight and possibly you are doing something that I am not.
     
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    In my case,it doesn't happen all the time but I do tend to squirt or gush on occasion...depends on the day.I did last night ;) ....For me,it depends on my mood,if he hits the right spot,etc...although he ALWAYS makes me climax several times.He makes my 'squirting/gushing a treat,rather than a regular thing.
     
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    Squirting is not a myth.......and it isn't as RARE as one may think ( or it might be more prevalent in my social circle of friends...Hehehhehehe).

    Both my Ex-wife and my wife are squirters.....both happened by accident when they started, we weren't trying to do it; it just happened.

    The wife cannot have sex now and stay dry, and she can usually have 10 or more squirting O's before her grand finish......

    In the 5 years we have been in the Lifestyle I have been with many women who squirt (I would say at least 50% do).....

    Yes it is very different than pee, and all women do it differently....From looking like you just opened the faucet a bit....to a forcefull expulsion....
    I have been hit in the chest from a few women (it comes out that hard)....to masturbating another woman with my hand (2 fingers inside and hand cupped) ....She came so hard it went up my cupped hand and hit her in the face.

    Now that was a first for the both of us....

    Dvus
     
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    I have not experienced it personnally but I know not all women will experience female ejaculation. Some only do. It comes from intense G spot stimulation when it happens. Plus, the girl has to be totally relaxed and not try to hold on. The liquid that comes out of the urethra is not urine at all although it may seems like it.
     
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    I have on occassion. I would love to do it all the time, as it is so incredibly intense. I have not 'squirted' like I've seen in the porn movies, but I have been the "trickling faucet" that DvusDoug mentioned. More importantly, though, is how powerful it is.

    It has always happened to me when my G-spot is being manipulated perfectly. And I think that since I've experienced it, I am more sensitive to G-spot fun - meaning, I 'feel' it more. Its like a sexual sensation that I never knew existed. Now that I've been 'enlightened', my husband & I work together to get that feeling going for me.

    It drives me insane when it's happening, but i love it, just the same. :brow
     
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    I think I have "dribbled" during particularly intense orgasms. Occasionally I've noticed some kind of fluid on the floor or the bed that isn't semen or regular vaginal lube. And yes, it is caused by G-spot stimulation.
     
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    Sounds great
     
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    Unless it's intense I think my wife may ooze juice(probably not the right word to use) but the thing I like is after I make her cum I keep going until she can stand it any more and then she uncontrollably pees all over the place.
     
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    Ive only ever come across this once,some time ago and it was the most intense sex ever.
     
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    Ive heard a lot of people saying about they either squirt or gush, but they are the same thing by the ways.

    But yes they are real , it does happen, and some females are able to squirt like a small water fountain.
    ive had that a few times with my ex, but i knew the ins and outs of what she loved and totaly enjoyed which helped .
     
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    My wife does it,but she doesn't do it everytime she orgasm.
     
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    My SO has dribbled a few times but not a gush yet, I also wouldn't mind if she happen to "accidently" pee on me:dgrin
     
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    Myths? No, I would think not. And I would think someone over the age of 16 would know its not a myth but it also depends on their upbringing..Meh..They are not myths.
     
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    My girlfriend cums everytime we do it. Is that just how she is or am I that great?
     
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    Its defenetly because you are without a shadow of a doubt the best lover the world has ever known :p hehehe


    Some females are extremly hyper sensative , i know of one female friend who says a guy or a gal touches her anywhere on her naked body and she orgasms .

    Some female can orgasm easliy others find it more difficult some impossible.
     
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    im glad i know i can orgasm..impossible? that would suck... </3
     
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    most of it is fake in these videos. but it's possible, i do it frequently
     
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    I had it happen only once to a girlfriend a long time ago. We used to spend hours just engaged in a 69 and one day she squirted all over me. I wasn't expecting it, and being quite young had not really encountered it before and thought she had pissed on me. She was furious with my reaction and pretty soon after we split up.

    I have since been friendly with a woman who says she squirts when she plays with herself but I am not sure if she is just trying to tease me.

    So my one great moment ended in disaster. The lesson? Best to be like a boy scout and always be prepared!