Inviting family member into a threesome!

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by katie12345, Jan 2, 2011.

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Could it work

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  2. No

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  1. katie12345

    katie12345 New Member

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    My name is Katie im 28 and have been with my partner since we were both 13. The last few years we have experimented in our sex life by inviting other people mostly men. Hubby enjoys it and so do i.
    He works away a lot and over the christmas peroid he has hinted at us getting it on with his brother and maybe see his brother while hes away. At 1st this was a no go but now im started to feel tempted any advice please could it work etc

    Katie
     
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    couldnt that get a bit....awkward?
     
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    Thats what im thinking could jeolousy get in the way but he has never got jeolous in the past when we have had other guys join us!
     
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    Yeah but this is his own brother FFS's......:eek
    I could see this as being a BIG mistake in your relationship!!:tsktsk
     
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    There are what, several billion other guys on the planet? Why involve his brother?
     
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    NOOOOOOO I wouldn't that is def a no go area :ugh
     
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    I don't see how it could work. It's gotta be uncomfortable at family get togethers.
     
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    dont do itttt!!!
     
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    No. Don't go there with that.
     
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    I'll toss my vote in the same direction as everyone else. Bad idea, don't do it.
     
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    this will have horrible effects on you relationship!
    family 3 somes are a no go!
     
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    I totally agree.^

    Unless ur bf likes incest?
     
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    Um it's a bad idea
     
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    Hi Katie,
    I tend to agree with the others but if your are ok with this idea then really it depends on how close the bros are to one another.
    It is actually not that strange a notion as in some cultures with limited land resources and for inheritance purposes, it is normal for a woman to marry all the brothers!
    Of course here we are not talking of marriage or land inheritance but possibly fertility but even on that basis I can't see a major problem.
    A bit different but one of my friends and his SO actually swing with his brother and his own lady.
    A bit odd but apparently they have lots of fun together.
    Horses for courses...........whatever rocks your boat!
     
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    Thanks guys for all your imput i think you have made my mind up for me x
     
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    Your most welcome Katie.....:D
     
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    Very welcome Katie and enjoy your 3some if you do go ahead :) x x
     
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    Thanks for all the Advice i have decided not to go along with the threesome but i do see his brother 2 times a week ! my hubby works away nearly all the time and is only here on weekends. He came up with the idea why do men think like that?
     
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    Mmmm...so his brother comes round twice a week to have you?....
    That's different.....:D
     
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    whatever works for him.. as long as he doesn't get jealous and it works out for all of you, great!