Introducing lover to anal

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  1. wickedred

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    My lover and I want to explore anal play and I'm looking for some tried and true techniques to start with. I have been the recipient of anal and have performed it once on a previous lover years ago, however the man I am currently with has never been on the receiving end and I want to make his first time unforgettable in the best possible way. Tips, suggestions etc to make this a good experience are appreciated.
     
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    Lots of lube and go slow. Start with fingers and work your way into a dildo.
     
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    And he has to be relaxed.

    Have a safe word

    Agree w above - go slow & lots of lube!
     
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    Safe word? ......Something like ..."SON OF A BITCH!!!!WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING??!! GET THAT OUTTA MY ASS!!!!!"???
     
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    It's better than "oh baby yes YES HARDER HARDER. That feels good
     
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    First thing is to make sure he's okay with it, guys have a lot of hang ups when it comes to this.

    Outside of that lube and a slow touch.
     
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    I think doing it spontaneously would be a good way to try it. Tell him that you are going to do it some time but not when. Catch him in the heat of the moment. I don't think he will be as tense and he may not realize it.