So my wife and I are thinking about getting into anal play (giving and receiving for the both of us) and we were curious about the best way to prepare for this. She's a very clean person when it comes to her pussy and her biggest issue with anything anal is...well...the anus itself. Are enemas recommended before getting into it? Or just a good cleaning in the shower? I don't know if we'll necessarily get into actual anal sex but just a finger or small toy every now and then. I've heard about prostate massage for men and the amazing orgasms that come with it but have never really though about incorporating it into our sex lives. I guess I've always thought about the "messy" side associated with anal play and it kind of turned me away from it. Any thoughts would be well appreciated. Thanks!