Interracial: Fun or Taboo?

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by DDH, Jul 9, 2007.

  1. DDH

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    I don't think I came across this in the forum. Has anyone considered it? I think most of the intrigue comes from how little one knows about the other person and his/her ethnic background. Then again, many people LIKE that sort of lack of knowledge since that is their fantasy. I personally find Latina women to be smoking, but so there is something about the Russian female physique that is astounding. I suppose that people also say that "as long as he/she is hot, decent does not matter" but I think that has loads of BS behind it. People cannot help but feel attracted to those like them but also those not like them. It has happened since civilization first started. Anyway, before this turns too philosophical, I just wanted to know what others thought.
     
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    I think that going for a specific ethnicity is just as bad as steering away from a specific ethnicity.
     
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    I've never done it -- but it's certainly fun to watch. :)

    I would, though. I'm an equal opportunity kind of guy! :-D
     
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    Yeah, I once knew a woman who only went for guys of one race (not hers) but praised herself for her "openmindedness." Crazy.

    All that being said, I can see why people are hesitant to enter into relationships with people of other ethnicities because of the societal pressures that come with it.
     
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    Me and my boyfriend of 2 yrs are interracial. Im black and hes white. I was never attracted to him just because he was white. Im attracted to guys of all races if they are cute. I can see how you would want a specific race because of stereotypes like black guys (big penises), black girls (big booty's), asian girls (porcelain skin) or latin girls (serious hour glass figure), but those arent true. There are many black guys with small penises, latin girls that resemble stick figures, and as a black girl I am sad to announce my booty is average.
     
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    This must be an American obsession, because there are a few threads on this. You Americans talk interracial as if skin colour means something, it doesn't! Black, white, you're all generations of the same country.

    Cross-cultural sex is something else entirely, and having sex with someone from a different culture can open your mind to the way other parts of the world have very different sexual priorities, values and techniques. The physical characteristics of the girls didn't interest me as much as the other aspects of sex.
     
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    For a one-night-stand, I don't think race matters to me, but for a life-long partnership, it's easier to relate to someone with a similar background. That said, my wife has a pretty different background than me -- different upbringing, different social values, different economic experiences, different education levels -- yet we get along great. I learn from her, and she learns from me. We wrap it all together and make a pretty strange couple, but most people probably admire us for what we have.
     
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    I am a white guy and I find that I am primarily attracted to asian women, so interracial not taboo for me. I try not to limit myself to being attracted to asian women but find myself preferring them for some reason.
     
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    Please be mindful when posting to threads that haven't been looked at in close to five years.
     
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    I agree with this completely, the contrast of lighter and darker skins during sex is very sexy, and it is a beautiful thing in general.


    I love interracial dating. Here in Canada it is tolerated because of multiculturalism. That's not saying racism doesn't exist here, yet it is usually white people around here that are not as forgiving. Being mixed race I've been gladly accepted into my cultural backgrounds, but there have been many white people that have things to say about how I live my life. But as far as interracial dating goes, I have never had any problems at all.
     
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    For casual sex the ethnicity of the girl or guy doesn't matter to me at all. Although it can be added spice to the fun. For other people it will be different some are only attracted to their own , some to both and some not to their own but only other(s).

    As far as a loving long term relationship, interracial is a challenge if the person is from another country. In other words as cbr said intercultural. I know of girls from china that married a ABC (American born Chinese) guy that have really struggled with the cultural differences they hadn't/ didn't think would exist.
     
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    Hey Thunderseed, Im just curious and i hope u don't mind my asking, but what races are you blended with?
     
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    nothing wrong with it. im a white guy who has only been with latina women. i love interracial porn with black and white people
     
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    Are you mixed race too?
    I have some german and irish ancestry. First Nations otherwise known as Native American in the states. My nation is Cree otherwise known as the buffalo nation from the plains, Coast Salish from around the west coast K'omoks tribe, and Huichol tribe Aztecian Nation from around mexico. There are literally thousands of native nations and even more tribes within nations. I also have some egyptian blood or i'm guessing what is known as east indian these days, and romanion, and probably some more i forgot, i think my ancestors mated a lot.

    I was adopted into an all white Christian family but I am very into my native culture traditions. Actually my adopted mom just found out she is Metis a couple years back. Which is the name to describe French mixed with First Nations. A cool thing about Metis people is they often have red hair and very pale skin. I'm not sure how that happens because i never thought of the French being redheads, but it's something cool that happens in the genes I guess. She is one of the redheaded ones, that goes to say she gets sunburned real easy :D
     
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    I have done a lot of both, and casual sex with someone from a different culture is a lot of fun. I do remember a Jamaican woman who was very, very dark and she looked amazing against my fair skin.

    I have also have a long-term inter-cultural relationship, and the first few months of that were very, very hard. Both parties take certain things for granted, and never in a million years would even guess that such things would upset their partner, but they do. You don't even think of talking about such things because, from one or the other's cultural perspective, it's a non-issue. But nonetheless you are coming at many aspects of the relationship from very different directions. Both of you have to find a middle ground between the cultures, and over time that can happen. In our case, the middle ground has largely proven to be the best of both cultures. But it is hard work getting there!
     
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    never tried it, but I'm willing to if I find the right girl.
     
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    All races have a beautiful people..Obviously! It's the culture from which they come that may make it more or less desirable to your liking...
     
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    I think it'd be a major turn but haven't tried it yet since lol married. Unless you count a kiss on the check when I was 5???? Hahaha jk.
     
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    I don't think race matters at all, I just like nice people.
     
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    As far as for sex only, I see it as the "forbidden fruit" and that makes it so much better. I love women from all ethnic backgrounds. If your talking about a serious relationship I would be very very careful before making any decisions, especially concerning marriage.