internet porn ruined my life

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  1. frdnkr

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    I was very satisfied sexually for many years, but then I stumbled onto all the images and videos that are available on the internet of people having all kinds of amazing sex, and now I'm just so curious I can't stand it.

    I don't spend a lot of time looking at porn. It's just that I've seen enough that it has opened my eyes to possibilities that I have no idea how to realize. I mean, there are all these videos of fantastic-looking women doing things that I have never even been able to get close to persuading a woman to do with me. I really don't want to watch other people; I just want to participate myself. Is this just a childish fantasy?

    I'm not sure I'm making this clear. It's just, there is so much of this stuff out there, literally thousands of these "dirty girls" that I have to wonder how do you find people who will do it? Do I just have to have lots of money? Do I need to go to Nevada so I can approach women without risking prosecution? Or are there really people who just enjoy sex enough that they will do it for free?

    Any advice, anybody?
     
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    I have already called in sick for work tomorrow as I will be sitting here waiting for the answer to this post.
     
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    Those girls are paid. When me and my husband got to gather I was real reserved about sex but he has opened me up so much. Maybe u need to get someone and "train" them to what u like. That's what he did to me.
     
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    ....what are the things that you have never even able to get close to persuade a woman to do with you?
     
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    Yes. And you have to invest it in a porn production company.

    Well, the ratio in Nevada of "approachable" women to high-prosecution-risk women gives you a 99.97% chance of prosecution. Approach with caution, even in Nevada.
     
  6. Sexyforhim

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    Just have to find the right girl.
     
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    U realize most of what goes on is fake, right? Especially on the women side. Fake bodies, fake sex, fake orgasms. I mean honestly, they're actresses and actors. They get paid for a reason. Not saying you cant have amazing sex, but keep that in mind. Most men's expectations are ruined by porn because it's mostly unrealistic. And it puts a lot of pressure on the one yur with to -act like a porn star- which is in some ways unfair because you lose your appreciate for who she is. And like you already said, its alot harder for you to be satisfied. Aaaanyways... Just what I've seen from experience.
     
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    I agree. Im kinda pissed I cant find some of these women. I dont even ask for that much either :(
     
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    Ugh, I'm going to get all sappy. I've found some women that enjoy porn-like sex, what with the bombastic, over-the top dirty talking, pop-shots and all that. But most of the time, women don't want that. There are many occasions where sex is appropriate and many different moods to have sex with. It wouldn't be appropriate to be raunchy all the time.

    I kind of wonder how many porn stars hate the kind of things they have to do anyway. Cody Lane quit early in her career because it was all too rich for her blood. And I'm sure you can assume that the treatment of women on screen (the choking, cumming in their face, calling them names) all kind of desensitizes the staff. I've seen auditions where the camera man straight up berates these people. From what I can see, some porn directors don't see women as people.

    I went to a strip club once and had a private dance, and now I can't go again. I got to talking to her and she was disappointed that she ended up being a stripper.

    What I guess I'm saying is that some porn stars hate the job and are genuinely humiliated by it, and while they could quit, it's just not right to expect porn-like sex from people.
     
  10. Sexyforhim

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    I personally think every girl should have a little porn star in her
     
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    I've been in ten weddings, best man four times, so I've been too alot of strip clubs, and never once has a girl told me she regretted becoming a striper. Most are more worried how they are going to continue to make the same income after they stop.

    On the porn issue, I've never met a girl that did the things in those movies, and thats ok. Although, what I wouldn't give to get a BJ from my girl once in awhile. I go down on her every chance I get :)~
     
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    Hi nice to me you.
     
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    Hmmm, never had anyone "me" me before. But the thought of you on me does sound very nice Sexyforhim ;-)
     
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    I actually saw a porn film being made and the reality is not what you may think. They eventually got the lighting and sound and camera angles and sound right and then had sex in a position for a few minutes before the director cut the scene with a good take. Then they spoke to the actor and actress and got them to change positions, and then set up the lights, sound and camera focus again and then had some more sex in that position for a while. This went on and on and eventually it took about six hours to film less than 10 minutes of sex.

    When edited together all the many takes look seamless, but the reality is rather different. It isn't sex at all.

    I once did an interview on a national television network in Australia and that was much the same. It took us four hours to film a 7 minute segment.
     
  15. Sexyforhim

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    Lol that was suppose to say meet u.