Interesting question for women!!!

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  1. happy

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    Ok, so we keep getting these insecure men with SIZE questions, blah blah, blah....and understandably so guys.....BUT! I am wondering if females out there are just as insecure with the tightness of their pussys? Do you women ever get insecure about the looseness like we may be with our size? Do you ever think, "Oh man he's gonna think i m really loose!"
    I would love some honest answers....i writing a book....hahaah not really but lets hear em!
     
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    Now correct me if im wrong, but doesnt the vagina change sizes depending on what is put into it? I mean, lets say a woman is having sex with only one guy who has a 7inch penis. She will probably be satisfied with that penis becuase her vagina will conform to that penis. The vagina is a very stretchy (if thats the best word to fit in the blank) thing considering that a baby can pass through it...

    to be all honest though, i have no idea what the women think though...
     
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    I think women worry about the size of their boobs and butts and bellies more than the tightness of the coochie.
     
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    No, I am never worried about this because I never put anything too big in my vagina to have to worry about it.. But that's just me. Lickitalltwice pretty much sumed it up. I worry about my boobs or ass way more then the tightness of my vagina.
     
  5. Bluesy

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    I think the only women who worry about tightness are those whose vaginas have stretched due to childbirth (sometimes women lose a bit of elasticity, but not always). And, yes, I have seen such women stress over regaining their former elasticity, but there are things you can do, such as kegel exercises and using ben wa balls.

    I practice kegels despite not having had children, because the stronger the PC muscles are, the tighter the "grip"...There's always room for improvement, far as I'm concerned ;)
     
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    Women don't have to worry about this because they can just shift the blame on the guy for being too small. It's kind of like the guy's responsibility to fill and please the pussy. That's why guy's are insecure.
     
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    Interesting perspective you have there Rocky. Too bad you're full of poop. :lol
     
  8. Kronnie

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    My problem with females ( that i have dated ) has always been the same , i was the pleasurer, never the pleasured, so i got very used to never being given any type of pleasure for me, and became pretty good at giving females i was with loads of pleasure...

    but i know this isnt the norm with females, i have just been unlucky
     
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    I think my perspective is shared by a lot of guys in general. That's why there are so many penis size threads and penis enlargement products, but almost no vagina size threads or vagina shrinking products.
     
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    Boy, Don't you have it all wrong There Rocky!!!
     
  11. happy

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    DFi Kegal excercises REALLY work? is it scientifically proven so to speak?
     
  12. Webster695

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    Yep.
     
  13. Bluesy

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    Rocky, you've adopted a very immature and unenlightened attitude here, and it isn't going to help you feel better about yourself. Do you honestly think women don't have obstacles to healthy self-image? If anything, it's a thousand times harder for a woman to feel good about her body in our society than it is for a guy. Wonderbras and water bras and cleavage-enhancers, oh my. All the threads dissecting the joys of the ideal tits and asses, oh my. The pressure to fit into a size 4...I could go on all day. If you don't accept yourself as you are, you are never going to be happy, period. And the way you go about it is not by getting bitter and shifting blame, it's by embracing the sensible and mature understanding that the high quality women of the world, the kind you would want for a gf, don't really give a shit about penis size and aren't going to waste a second lamenting the fact that you aren't porn-star perfect...because they'll be too busy admiring your positive characteristics and feeling grateful for having the opportunity to be with you.

    80% of women can't come from vaginal sex, no matter WHAT the size of the cock! So get good at using that tongue, and learn to be a sensitive, sensual lover. Your priorities are seriously screwed up at the moment.

    Ob/gyns recommend them, so, yes, they do work.
     
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    :( ??? I'm so sorry that's been your experience. I find that very sad. I'm all about receiving pleasure, but part of that is pleasuring your partner.
     
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    I have heard that 70-80% of women don't cum from intercourse, but I thought that was more because the guys were either not thick enough or don't last long enough. Every woman has a gspot, so most should be able to come if the guy is big enough and does it right, right?
     
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    I've never heard that size factors into g-spot stimulation...If it's true, that's a new one to me. I've never had a g-spot O and my ex-husband was rather well-endowed (not HUGE, but on the upper end of average). I'm tempted to say that it has more to do with shape because g-spot vibes/dildos are always crooked at the end. Look up g-spot toys and you'll see that they're mainly skinny rod-like things that are hooked at the end.

    ETA: The g-spot is supposed to be only a couple of inches from the vaginal opening, btw.
     
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    if i can make myself cum with 2 fingers (and i have small hands!) then penis size has nothing to do with it!
     
  19. RockyRaccoon

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    Well regarding the gspot toys, they're angled and rigid. The penis is usually straight and the head is not rigid, so u can't really direct it that finely. So I assume it has to compensate by being thick. I mean how come most dildos are bigger and thicker than the average penis? I'm just saying that girls like to be stretched and they climax faster when they are.
     
  20. Bluesy

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    Where are you seeing these massive dildos? Most are average-sized.

    Where did you hear that?