Insomnia thread about attraction

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  1. sandwich

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    I work flexible hours, so I really never go to bed at the same time...tried but can't sleep. So I'm wondering about attraction...what has been typical for you as far as what catches your eye versus the type of people you end up having as a bf or gf or husband or wife.

    I was thinking about all the celebrities I like and they are almost all of the same hair and eye color...

    Tom Hardy, Bono, Jim Caviezel, Viggo Mortensen as Aragorn, Chris Hemsworth as the Huntsman, Mark Harmon with silver hair, Simon Baker...there's more but that's enough to explain.

    Most of these guys have dark hair with blueish or otherwise light eyes, and only one has blond hair. Chris is a dark blond, but I liked his dark hair in Snow White and the Huntsman. I have seen Viggo with different hair colors, so I am not sure what the natural shade is. I like his hair dark.

    Then there is the fact that only one of these guys is within a couple years of my age. Chris is a year or so younger, and the rest are five to about 30 years older.

    But the guys I have dated have been all over the place when it comes to hair and eye color as well as age. So that tells me that for me, the person is more important than the package. So I was just wondering where y'all fit into this. And NO, I don't want to know about the 500 one night stands you've had with a certain type. I am curious about what attracts people from an distance versus how it plays out in dating.
     
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    i have dark hair n blue eyes too haha
     
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    Yeah I know it and I like it.
     
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    haha thanks
     
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    I might have to cyberfuck you any minute now.
     
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    jump on my cybercock then haha
     
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    Fuck. I may have to change the title of this thread.
     
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    haha what to?
     
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    Well, remember when I first joined this forum a month ago and I embarrassed myself when I thought I was sending you a personal message but in reality it was a visitor message that everyone could see? I mentioned how I would like to change my forum name from Sandwich to MichaelInMyMouth. I'm not embarrassed any more, and maybe I could call it that.....
     
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    go for it haha
     
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    There are all sorts of nasty lovely things I could go for.
     
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    Aw sammich....I thought you was just bein' all brazen and shit...talkin to mike like that....on the visitor board....it was uh... Very endearing.....:D
     
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    I can do brazen or endearing...I have many talents.
     
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    I've noticed.....I mean , uh,...what did you say?......:D
     
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    You're talking about my music skills, right?
     
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    Your ummm, vocal range....yeah, that's what I meant.....or, the uh, way you tickle the ivory....or....
     
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    she certainly can blow my trumpet
     
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    The song I could play on that might just make you pass out.
     
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    only one way to find out
     
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    We'll call you the " soloist" .......