I work flexible hours, so I really never go to bed at the same time...tried but can't sleep. So I'm wondering about attraction...what has been typical for you as far as what catches your eye versus the type of people you end up having as a bf or gf or husband or wife. I was thinking about all the celebrities I like and they are almost all of the same hair and eye color... Tom Hardy, Bono, Jim Caviezel, Viggo Mortensen as Aragorn, Chris Hemsworth as the Huntsman, Mark Harmon with silver hair, Simon Baker...there's more but that's enough to explain. Most of these guys have dark hair with blueish or otherwise light eyes, and only one has blond hair. Chris is a dark blond, but I liked his dark hair in Snow White and the Huntsman. I have seen Viggo with different hair colors, so I am not sure what the natural shade is. I like his hair dark. Then there is the fact that only one of these guys is within a couple years of my age. Chris is a year or so younger, and the rest are five to about 30 years older. But the guys I have dated have been all over the place when it comes to hair and eye color as well as age. So that tells me that for me, the person is more important than the package. So I was just wondering where y'all fit into this. And NO, I don't want to know about the 500 one night stands you've had with a certain type. I am curious about what attracts people from an distance versus how it plays out in dating.