I keep seeing posts about relationships where only one partner initiates. This leads me to wonder what's considered 'initiating'. I don't live with either of my partners, so I know my situation is a bit different than those I hear about. While I almost never physically initiate sex, I'll express my wants/needs via text or call. I'll initiate the meeting, but even once I'm with him usually won't initiate sex--even though I've made it clear and obvious that it's what I want. So this makes me wonder... how do you initiate sex? How does your significant other/partner?