[Ask a Girl] Inapropriate PMs

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  1. oldkid

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    Ladies.... How do you feel about receiving inapropriate PMs.
    Can you please give me some examples so I can go up to the line and not cross it. Thanks in advance for helping keep me out of trouble. My mouth occasionally engages in advance of my brain.:phat
     
  2. Silverfox

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    I know this is for the ladies. I think it's going to depend on the woman and how well you know her.
     
  3. Mittimer

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    Inappropriate is anything that makes them uncomfortable. This is subjective to each individual lady. If reported it can and normally does end in a ban. Just a heads up. :)
     
  4. teamster145

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    As well it should.
     
  5. alwaystry

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    Reported or not ,, does it really happen often? I am assuming it's by newer members that treat this like a "dating " sight. I mean , I have seen some sexy pictures and threads but it has not popped inmy head to pm something strange. I don't know , just cannot wrap my mind around it.
     
  6. oldkid

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    Is this to allow each member to be a censor, or is it to stifle free thought? It's like everyman's definition of porn, you can't define it but you sure know it when you see it. Thanks for being so clear.:eyes
     
  7. oldkid

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    It's always fun to watch a group of men defending defenseless ladies. And tilting at windmills. With my sarcasm, and unrelenting resistance to "groupthink", I expect to be banned.
     
  8. Mittimer

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    To be a censor? No. It's to keep our members feeling safe and comfortable. Free speech and censorship isn't covered when someone sends a pile of photos and unwarranted advances repeatedly to the inbox of any member.
     
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    Do guys actually send unrequested dirty pictures to females??
     
  10. Mittimer

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    Yes, more often then you imagine.
     
  11. wetness1

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    Nice...
     
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    ^ wish it was the other way round :p

    ladies please send your "unrequested dirty pictures" to ginge@doingtheforumafavour.com lol :phat
     
  13. SWOJLO

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    To be fair, there should be some gray area here. Example: Awhile back Mitt posted a link that allowed us to listen to the sound of her actual voice. I believe it made a lot of us men uncomfortable but just unzipping our pants as to allow for expansion helped ease any discomfort. Nobody needed to be banned there.:D:D
     
  14. Mittimer

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    Lol oh god I forgot about that!
     
  15. oldkid

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    Where can I find that one?:lol
     
  16. almostthere

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    Really? I wouldnt have the balls to do that
     
  17. oldkid

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    Notwithstanding orders from higher headquarters, I welcome with open mind any ad all PMs from anywhere, anyone, and any time. Life's too short to be offended. :whoa
     
  18. alwaystry

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    Ditto!
     
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    Speaking as a woman, I welcome all PM's. It's an adult site so it one is offended by PM's, then they shouldn't be on this site.
    Send as many PM's as you like, all are welcome!!! :cheer
     
  20. ginger

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    ^ I'll send you some SweetAfton if you send me some :)