Inappropriate texts to people we fancy

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  1. Mestizomad

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    Hi,

    I have a long term GF, however I am fortunate enough to be in a very open, honest and laid back relationship. Me and my GF tell each other when we fancy people and we do currently have permission to have occasional casual NSA sex with other people (but have not done so yet).

    I mean currently, my bisexual GF has just agreed to having a MFF threesome and I'm hoping that the 3rd person can be one of our hot female friends. However that may not be possible as the main rule of our open relationship is that we cannot shag any of our friends.

    Anyways, I'm an exhibitonist and so I really enjoy getting naked in front of women. When I'm feeling horny I have MASSIVE urges to send naked pics of myself to my females friends. However I know that even for our causal relationship that's too far and is breaking the rules...

    Plus I don't want to damage my friendships with my female friends.

    These are the pics I would like to send (but with faces)...

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    Has anyone else even sent such pics to female friends out of the blue, and what kind of response did you get lol?

    Have any of you females ever received such pics from male friends?
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    @Mestizomad

    I can understand your desire to do this and of course, why wouldn't your friends want to see you naked. Women who are our friends, however, generally don't want to see our dicks. I don't know why, I want to see every one of my female friends naked, seems right to me, women seem to be different.

    If you seriously want to this, start joking with them and get a sense of how they would react to a naked pic and maybe start a little slower if you want to keep them as friends.

    Ladies, tell me I'm right, wrong or out of my mind.
     
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    This is a famously inappropriate thing to do. The list of reasons is long, but here's one reason: Pornography is being transmitted to a person's phone or computer without permission or warning. You don't know who else might be looking over her shoulder when she innocently opens the message. Do you want to be a purveyor of pornography to minors and others who choose to use legal protections against being exposed to it? If you do, just get yourself a trench coat.
     
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    This goes back to my basic rule in life.

    Anything that consenting adults agree to is fine by me. If you are involving others in your actions, make sure they are consenting and adults.
     
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    I do understand all of your points, and that's why as until now I've never actually crossed that line and sent Anyang to anyone who didn't want it.

    Have to admit though, I'm having strong urged right now...

    Have even got urged at the moment to just drop my pants in front of a female friend and show her my dick... However I do know that this won't go down well...
     
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    I dont use it, but i looked up private message groups on the google play store and found a couple diffrent free apos. This is one way you and your girl could communicate with others without it being so innocent. Also, by knowing the nature of why the app is installed it would be less likely that one would innocently open a nude pic in public or in any situation tbat could be deemed inappropriate gor any reason.
     
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    As an exhibitionist kinda guy myself, I understand the turn on aspect for you. However, I also understand that 9 out of 10 women aren't even slightly interested in a mans genitalia. As far as physical things, chest, shoulders, ass, legs, face will be way, way ahead on a woman's list of physical attractions. And even physical attraction in general will fall behind things like attitude, confidence and sense of humor.. Having said that, if you DO find that 1 out of 10 (and they exist, I live with one.. She's all about the cock) ....enjoy it.. It's a rarity lol.
     
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    The rule to the wise here is if the other person has not asked for a dick pick, do not send one. I know for a fact that most women are turned off by unsolicited dick pics. I have nothing against a crotch shot from someone I know and have/are going down that road, but it can be a huge turnoff having someone just wave their bits in your face, male or female.

    xx
     
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    I once sent a text incorrectly to a superior. Lol oops.
     
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    Great video. Posted it a while back, when this topic had come up.

    xx
     
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    It's a classic....
     
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    Hey everyone, thanks for the replies and advice. I will agree with you that just sending a cropped in image of my dick wouldn't be that magical lol.

    I would indeed like to have a naughty sexting type thing going with multiple hot and single female friends. We have actually joked about it very briefly before. I've had female friends joke about sending me pics of them in their lingerie and I put a mostly naked and quite raunchy pick of myself on the front of a bday card for one female friend, which she did find really funny.

    I want to elevate things though from jokes to the real deal. Slowly and very gradually is the key I think..
     
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    This is a little off topic, but i have just accidentally found out that my GF is secretly planning to do a raunchy photo calendar of herself and two of her female friends for me for Xmas. Them naked with plant pots or just their hands covering etc...
     
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    I agree Cappy and Hi!! xoxo
     
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    If a friend would send me sexy pictures of himself, I'd worry about it. I'd be afraid he was a stalker in the making, or something like that. It's such a no no, the fact someone would do it would scare me. I'd be forever afraid to be alone with him. What if he'd misread something I'd say and attack me sexually.

    Because of this fear of inappropriate behavior from his part, I'd put an end on our friendship. Probably.

    I've had friends proposing sex and friends saying they were in love with me. But sending an unsolicited, unexpected dick picture is something completely different.
     
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