Hey everyone, I've been with my girl for nearly a year and I love her to death. My only problem is, even by her own admission, she isn't very good at oral. Problem is actually too serious a word, since I would never dream of leaving her because of it. Anyway, I love going down on her, and have a good success rate (100% when we aren't stressed, about 80% when we are... we're both professional students with a very stressful curriculum). I know I can improve, and I want to improve, because I want to give her as much pleasure as I can. I decided to order a few books, one for me and one for her, about how to perform oral sex. If it was just me I'd look online, but it figured it would be better to get her a book, especially since the two came in a set (his and her books by the same authors). So, my question is does anyone have any ideas on how to suggest to her these books without making her feel like she's not "good enough"? I know she has told me she doesn't think she's good at giving blowjobs, but I still don't want to make her feel inadequate. Perhaps I can approach it as a chance for us to look through the books together and each find some new things to try?