Immediate help needed!

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  1. Jakeyboi

    Jakeyboi New Member

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    Hi, Im a 18 year old member and I know this question is about sex but I could really use some advice. Im going on a date tomorrow with a girl, she is lovely :) I have been told by her that she is going to kiss me and I am shit scared as despite being 18 I havent properly kissed a girl yet as I havent wanted to commit to someone yet. PLEASE can someone give me some advice on how to kiss her as I literally have no idea.....people say it comes naturally but I find it hard to beleive......

    All help would be appreaciated greatly!! Cheers guys :)

    Jakeyboi
     
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    Take it slow. Be honest and tell her you aren't a very good kisser and ask her to show you how to do it.
     
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    The more you think about what you are doing the worse it will be just relax and don't think about it
     
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    Let your lips be relaxed. You're kissing, not pecking. She says she's going to kiss you, so it sounds like she's going to take the lead. Respond to what she does. You'll get the idea.
     
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    Ooooohhh you sound like a good kisser.
     
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    NO TEETH, NO TEETH. Don't try to reach the back of her throat with your tongue...yet.
     
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    Thanks for all the help guys, Reaaaaally appreciate the help :) What do you mean by no teeth? She said she wants to kiss with tongues but to be frank I dont know what to do :/
     
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    I repeat:

     
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    it comes naturally
     
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    Ok :) Thank you Meee, Ill take your advice and if you want let you know how it goes!
     
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    You'll be okay. Like Meee said, follow her lead and anything you do with your tongue, keep it non-aggressive and gentle. If she wants to ramp it up, she will. In about 2 minutes you'll be a friggin expert kisser. You lucky dog.:D
     
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    Be sure to spit out your gum beforehand.
     
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    Yep it does. Don't get uptight about it. My first serious GF was the more aggressive type who grabbed me for the first kiss. Blew me away! Just follow her lead.
     
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    open ur eyes as wide as u can and lick her teeth. chicks dig it.:lol
     
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    :lol:lol:lol
     
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    Kissing somebody doesn't mean a lifetime commitment either.....it's only a sign of affection.
    Just go with the flow....you'll be ok...trust me.:D
     
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    So what im getting from most of you is just to follow her lead yeah? Ill see how it goes and let you all know tomorrow :) Cheers folks! x
     
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    Those wings might be gone next time we see you.:lol
     
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    Let your lips relax, if hers relax take the lead and sorta put more "strength" so to say idk the term into yours. Don't use tounge unless she does, and just be gentle. thats the best i can do. If you want maybe surprise her and you go in first. Might make her happy, some girls like to be thrown off guard GOod luck man, I know how ya feel, waited for 7 years for my fiance to finally be with me again
     
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