my name is ams and i'm a 19yr old girl. I'm going out with this great guy and i really love him. We started having safe sex about three weeks ago. he was a virgin before that but i wasn't, although i have have sex before, not plesurable sex. I have been way into him and reaching orgasm when we were running all the bases, but since we ran home i just can't achive orgasm. i would like to orgasm during sex but for some reason it just doesn't feel all that good. i tell my boyfriend that it does feel good cause i know that he will feel guilty cause he knows i didn't get there. but now lately he hasn't been trying to get me to orgasm ans i'm having to do it my self. i have told him that if he just got me there before hand with cunningus than i don't think it would be such a big deal and it might actually help. and he doesn't really even touch me during sex. he doesn't grab my chest or any thing. as much as i am annoyed by this i would rather i knew how to orgasm during sex. My boyfriend does have stamina and we have tried to work until i got there, but he can only keep it up for so long. penitration kinda hurts and when he's inside of me i dont' really feel any thing, it's like i'm numb. i would really like to reach orgasm through sex. do you guys have any advice?