Im not used to this..and Its making me nervous

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  1. LunaLovegood

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    I turned 18 May 3rd. I been perfectly fine.. then suddenly I been easily turned on for some reason lately. Im not one for masturbation because I feel its wrong.. But I couldn't help but touch myself..

    Im nervous because I don't want to be an addict to masturbation or this "turned on" feeling.

    I am not used to this. I shake the weak feeling of being turned on usually when I was younger.

    ladies...or guys.. How do you deal with this?

    I have never really played with a dildo.. just my clit..

    I don't want it to hurt nor do I want to feel overwhelmed.
     
  2. igor

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    I don't know why you feel masturbation is wrong. It is not wrong.
     
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    There is nothing wrong with masturbation, it's actually good for you. I seldom play with vibrators or dildoes, rather just my own fingers on my clit but really the average size dildo shouldn't hurt you provided you use lube. Masturbation in moderation will not turn you into a sex addict, if anything it may save you from sleeping with the wrong person just to get sexual release. It is also a safe way for a woman to familiarise herself with her own body and orgasmic potential which in the long run will make her a better, more confident lover.
     
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    Very well put, DF. As a matter of fact, familiarizing yourself with what really gets you going will be extremely helpful when you get into an intimate relationship as well. This goes for both men and women, since a good partner is always wanting feedback about what he or she is doing right or wrong, and what they can do to improve your sex life.;)
     
  5. LunaLovegood

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    Thanks soo much guys. I might try it someday.. Thanks again
     
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    Let me know if you want someone to talk you through it :)
     
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    Ive also felt alot more horny this past year and i turned 19 in march, but masturbation will tone it down
     
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    there is nothing wrong with making yourself fell good
     
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    Masturbation is normal and is a release of stress to boot. Try it once and see what i mean. It is not wrong, even animals do it.