My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now.. and we have a little boy on the way..but he's difficult, or at least has gotten to be. He's lazy, a procrastinator, forgetful, and just doesn't really help me out, even though I'm on bed rest. Not to mention he is very hard to talk to, he either thinks I'm over reacting or he has nothing to say about the subject.. Sometimes I just need him there to cuddle, or to just massage me.. just something to show that he cared. He also flirts with our room-mate a lot.. they flirt back and fourth between one another actually..it really bothered me for a long, long time.. and now, I think I've just given up on caring. A lot of the time, I think he'd rather play video games, watch movies, smoke pot, drink, and hang out with other people than spend any time with me. Some friends tell me to just leave, and show him what he's missing, and what he has done. I just don't know if I could be without him, it would be hard for me to leave, he's been such a huge part of my life, and he is the father of my baby.:nerv I do love him... just how should I go about doing things? I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to feel obligated either.