Im getting married!!!!

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  1. SarahBear2010

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    Yay me!!!
     
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    Wooo Hooo Congrats. Have a great honeymoon
     
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    congrats, hope its evrything you wish for. x
     
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    ...congrats?
    Just don't tell me this is the same guy that you're having issues with for ignoring you after he couldn't get it up.
     
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    congratulations hope your both happy together
     
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    its not. that guy was just someone I exchange favors with. my soon-to-be husband wont find out. He believes me when I'm out with friends or shopping
     
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    Wow, what a way to start off a life long relationship, lies.

    That's not something to be proud about.
     
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    Sorry, but Mittimer is right. Honesty and trust are the cornerstones of a successful marriage. Better he hear it from you now than find out later and resent it.
     
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    I wouldn't want to start a marriage on lies...but if it makes you happy Congrats
     
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    I hope he does find out.

    I hope he also works for the CIA and your marriage is a cover thus he doesn't care what you do so long as the marriage is "solidified" to onlookers.
     
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    A woman after my own heart.
     
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    Sarah have you seriously thought this through?
     
  13. Mittimer

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    That line right there should answer your question.
    Any woman who boasts about how the man who's willing to marry her "believes her when shes out with friends or shopping" but is really fucking any guy she can behind his back, isn't thinking things through or thinking at all.

    Any woman who lies to their SO and thinks it's ok deserves all the karmic payback they endure.

    If they were in an open relationship, that would be one thing, but it's clear that's not the case and the poor sap stupid enough to marry her will quickly learn that he's getting himself into a relationship full of lies, cheating and deceit.
     
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    Okay you're sneaking around behind his back with a friend with benefits and your plan to marry the guy you're deceiving...GOOD LUCK! (tries to do his best lucious fox impression)
     
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    Men aren't as dumb as they look, one of these days you're gonna slip up (or your boytoy will). Or you'll do something unwittingly that causes suspicion and he might one of these days try to confirm that your friends were with you, and they may be disgusted with having to lie for you and feel sorry for him enough to confess all if you already have them set up to lie. He may ask to see receipts, or talk to your friends. No offence but it's dumb to involve other people in your lies, it's a weak link in a chain, one of them busts the entire lie can come apart for you cannot control what they do. I know you think you're safe, but your Achilles Heal might be your over-confidence and your over-confidence may be a weakness rather than a strength. My advice is "quit while you're ahead" if you're really serious about this guy. You cannot change the past, but you can change what you do in the present and future as it becomes the present.
     
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    Karma is a bitch! I hope you get what you deserve. He deserves better than you, too!
     
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    You're probably right, and maybe I'm just too softhearted, but someone who would admit to lying to her fiance on line may just be unaware of the magnitude of what she's doing. She might redeem herself by fessing up, and hoping that he is mature enough to see that she is sincere by admitting that she lied, and give her another chance. I assume that he loves her, and maybe she has enough redeeming qualities for him to overlook her immature actions.
     
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    One can hope this is the case...

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    I dont' hope he "get what she deserves" i hope she grows up a bit and ends this stupid charade of cheating on her fiance and lying to him like this.
     
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    LOL. These are nice people.

    I hope you get something really nasty and you have to become a Nun. They all say good luck?? I don't. Bad luck to you. You are a quaint four letter word I will not say, but you and me and everyone else knows what word that is. You will try to ruin a guys heart so you can get your jollies off?? Despicable.

    Hope he leaves you at the altar. That would be the greatest, EVER.

    edit- Here's the perfect song for you to walk down the aisle to. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_WqMpUrM-5k
     
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