I'm getting bored here.

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by LadyMissie, Dec 20, 2008.

  1. LadyMissie

    LadyMissie New Member

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    It's been a while since I've been here. Well I need to come back so I can talk openly about my issues.

    So I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. He's been my only serious boyfriend who I've slept with. As much as I love him, or at least loved him, I'm getting sick of the same thing after all this time. I'm not just talking sexual acts either.

    I work in a pretty damn big place, it's a casino, and since I work on the floor I'm surrounded by older men in uniforms and suits. My big three weakness. I also seem to have problems with not having a filter when I talk to guys, I don't talk like this around women thats for sure. So I usually end up talking about sex with all the guys. I can't seem to help spilling my guts to them. I've talked to at least 5 different guys about sexual topics and while I'm embarrased almost all of the times I can't help but enjoy it all.

    I've been flirting too much I think. I can't help it though as I love the attention and as long as I'm talking I'm not depressed. My job gets lonely even though I'm surrounded by people. Hell I even ended up talking with my landlord about my sexual things. I can't stop!

    Did I mention that I fall for almost all the guys I talk to? I'm such a whore.. I can't stop thinking about taking them in the sack. I'm not sure how much longer I can go without snapping.

    Help!
     
  2. cook74

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    If there's no love then I say you have to ease out of the relationship before you cheat on him and hurt him. As important as your feelings are so are his. I know it can be hard but if you are on the verge of having a fling it would be best in the long run to spill your guts before it is too late. Good luck.
     
  3. Dreama

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    What's been going on in your relationship that has been causing you to feel so unfulfilled sexually? Get to the root of that before you mess up your relationship without actually being able to have the chance to fix it.
     
  4. LadyMissie

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    It's just the same thing over and over again. I get bored easily with anything and three years with the same guy? Bleh. I never got to explore like everyone else in High school. The problem lies with me.

    I wish I could ease him out of this but now we have an apartment together and I can't afford this place without him. I only make a grand a month and the rent is $700. I would sink so fast without him.
     
  5. FlirtyChick

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    Hun, you need to figure out why you don't want to be with him. If you don't love him, don't keep hanging on. It is not fair to either one of you. You are young, and you and he deserve to date and experience other people if the relationship is not working. Also, flirting does not make you a whore, nor does discussing sex. I am a major flirt...it is just part of my personality. I flirt with men and women, and it is not always sexual, but is a way for me to slide past some shyness and get someone's attention to see if I am interested in having a serious conversation with the person. If you have been with the same guy since 17 and are bored, you should let him go. If you cannot afford the apartment get another roommate, but don't waste his time or his. Be truthful.
     
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    Is he into swinging?