Search my posts. In reference to this topic, I thought I was getting better, but I really am not. I'm extremely jealous over my girlfriend's sexual past and everything I've read tells me I shouldn't be. We've been together for over a year and I love her dearly. I really want to marry her someday. There is no one else like her. Also, I don't love her any less because of my jealousy, if it sounds that way. I will explain in further details why I am so jealous if nobody can help me from reading this post. A video on AskDanAndJennifer or whatever really helped me with this for a long time, but these jealous thoughts keep taking over my mind and I don't know what to do. I'm afraid that my jealousy has begun to affect our relationship in a negative manner and I want that to stop.