Hi, I'm in my mid 20s and I've been going out with my GF for 7 years. I deeply care for my GF and I know that I certainly used to love her however I admit that I don't feel the love anywhere near as much as I used to. My GF is a perfect match for me personality wise, she literally hasn't got a single fault, however she isn't the most attractive girl in the world, she is not ugly, but I would say she was a little below average in looks, which I know sounds very harsh and horrible to say. The thought of leaving my GF is very painful and I truly think that I would be lost without her as we are such as amazing match in terms of personality. I know so many guys that have hot girlfriends, but there persnalities are off and they have serious problems in that area. It's almost like I do love her but I don't lust for her enough, i do occasionally but not enough considering that she is my GF. To make matters worse i have a very attractive and single female friend who has been quite flirty with me for over a year now and I do have a serious crush on. I also get on very well with this girl and our personalities are a fairly good match but not as good as with my GF. I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place, I don't want to leave my GF, I certainly don't want to hurt her, I know that she loves me and that leaving her would severely hurt her, but at the same time I am not 100% happy and I do lust for another girl. Just talking about this does upset me. We have come close to breaking up before pretty much for this exact reason, but we never do as it I genuinely don't want to leave her, and because the thought of leaving is v painful. I have actually considered many times staying with her just to make her happy, even though I know I not fully happy myself. As I do really really care for her happiness. And also I know that certainly as you get older, personality is more important than physical looks and lust etc. I'm not saying that I'm completely unhappy, as mentioned before our personalities are literally a perfect match, it's just I seem to be in a deeply caring relationship with a girl that i don't fancy that much anymore, and I'm good friends with another girl that I do fancy. Am just a bit lost and have no idea what to do.