im 18 and i like older men

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  1. ashflirts

    ashflirts New Member

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    My curent bf is 27.
    I am just afraid I won't be able to please him as well as his past gfs; he has had more experience with sex.
    I am experienced in foreplay though.
    Do you have any tips on how to please him with sex?
    He likes to be on top...
    What do you like your girl to do?
     
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    ash welcome to the chat first off. i am just a year older than that and have recently wrote a post how i generally preferred older women for various reasons. so might be a good time to go into why? and what a few younger girls have done which have caught my eye and have made me a very satisfied camper along the way. to be frank...be playful...have fun... know what you want. dont hesitate to tell him what you like, that you like it a certain way. sex isnt a place to be shy and timid. im a strong believer that in the heat of the moment, the passion of taking eachother, what is said, what is done, cant be used against you. so let those primal urges flourish and be adventurous! i love being on top and there is few things that turn me on more than having a girls legs over my shoulders pinning her knees to her chest to feel her small hand pushing up at my sternum that im going to deep or too rough or shes feeling the wait of my body pinning her down too securely
     
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    Haha thank you! Glad to be here. Just reading these posts on here make me horny..
    :p I've already tried talkin about it. He tells me not to worry and that ill be fine because he already knows how tight I am and loves that.
    But in the back of my mind ill be worried hell be comparin me to his ex lovers..and I wanna be the best.
    I like older men because they generally know what they want, they are intelligent unlike guys my age, and already have their life started.
     
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    I understand what you mean
     
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    I once heard that, if a woman truly wants to please her man, then she should teach him how to please her.
     
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    As a guy I quite agree with you, knowing how to please a partner is high on my list. A woman who is open to her sexuality, not waiting for her man to try, but that she will try things too.
    To please your guy also oral sex, hand job, titty fuck, he gives you oral, etc
    try to have him let you go on top.
     
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    We're not all that hard to please lol, you get us off we're happy lol
     
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    Hi Ashflirts,
    My very best lover to date is the one who was still a virgin until 26 yo; she is 28 now and very experienced.:)
    With her once she set her mind on being good at sex then she studied the subject very seriously.
    Researched the Internet, read books, watched porn, visited sex shops for toys and ideas.:phat
    Often she is the one planing or dreaming up fresh ideas to spice up our sex life, oh and did I also mention that she is multi orgasmic, masturbates several times daily and still grabs me for sex at every opportunity?:eek
    I used to be a player spreading my favours around some but now no more.........no energy to spare!
    As for the age difference you know hers and mine is mentioned on my profile:D
     
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    I hear you ash. Your desire for older guys is not unusual. I have had some flings with younger women, although not quite as young as you LOL. What has kept them coming back to me is my desire to please them. I have learned to be a patient lover who is not interested in getting off quickly. Older guys tend to spend more time pleasing their women ...we are not in a hurry. I much prefer luxuriating pleasure on a woman. I love doing oral sex on my lady and seeing her shudder and writhe in ecstasy as orgasm twists her body and makes her groan.

    I can't help the fact that I worship women.
     
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    Start out by just lying down and letting him do his own thing. If he touches you or licks you in the right spot, moan to let him know you like it there. Believe it or not, but guys get turned on most when they know they are pleasing their woman. I love it when I hit it just right and a girl gets totally excited.

    If he starts running out of moves, then go ahead and try some moves of your own. Watch some porn of girls giving oral, and review some videos of the sex experts like Sue Johanson on how to do it right and safe. Research different sex positions too, there are hundreds. And remember everyone is different, methods you've used on your previous partner that worked, won't necessarily arouse the partner you have now. The key is to experiment, mix things up, find out what you and your partner enjoy and dwell on that.
     
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    Sorry but i disagree with oomm. Learning from porn is not a good idea. I think it creates unnatural expectations. Communication is the key. If you are worried that you won't compare favorably to his past lovers, just ask him what he likes. Tell him you want a night of learning what makes him feel best and try out whatever he wants (within reason). Then you can add your own flare to whatever that is. And you may just find out that what he likes best is not just sex, but sex with you.
     
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    Damn Ash, making me horny just reading them also, lol. I'm only 26 and trust me, we're still young enough and easy to please. Just get dirty and sloppy and let the noises be heard. Let it fly everywhere!
     
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    Have fun and be enthusiastic. Surprise him by offering things before heasks. Anal, deep throat, inviting a girl friend to join in the fun, etc,

    Don't forget the coconut oil. It makes for a slip sliding good time.
     
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    as we know that their are near one hundred sex position if ur r know that their r woman or girl is not remain up their is both sides under standing some were is girl is up or some were is man is up if ur wants that ur friend satisfied ur or give u pilassier then live them onward