[Ask a Guy] If you are a curious male...

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    If you are a BI curious male, are you curious in being a top, bottom, (giving) oral, (receiving) oral or other. (check all that apply)
     
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    My husband is bisexual and is strictly a bottom with men. He gives oral and receives anal.
     
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    I've definitely had bi-curious and/or strong homoerotic urges at times. The general trend with myself that I've noticed is that I tend towards (mentally - seeing as I've never actually done anything) being a "top." I'm not inherently opposed to performing oral on another man - probably because in my head that still seems like I am in a position of control/power. Receiving anal, though, is a no-go -- I've never enjoyed "P-spot" stimulation or anything like that.

    Wow... reading back on that makes me realize how much of a power play sex can be/is for me. o_O
     
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    I have bi-curious urges as well, though I'd prob start with the masturbation route first then ease into some oral. I did have a friend when I was younger and we would give each other hand jobs but not oral.
     
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    oral, giving and receiving
     
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    I've been bi about 9 years now. Mostly received oral, gave oral to two guys. I would give, receive, oral, anal to the right guy/guys.
     
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    I had the same, we started with fondling at 13 or so and then we started jerking each other off. I remember how good it felt when he touched me and for about a year or so we did it quite often. Then when I was 18 I had come home from a frustrating date and I ran into him at the 7-11. We got some beers and went and parked to drink them. He reached over and started felling me and pulled mine out. I soon after did the same to him. His had gotten so much bigger. Then I just leaned over and took him in my mouth to completion. We kept it up till our mid 20's. No regret.
     
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    See I would consider myself sci curious, are curious about the planets about the universe about quantum physics quantum mechanics, I'm also curious about physics biology and other really cool stuff like that does that make me weird or just a geek?
     
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    Sounds very similar to my experience with a friend, though I've not seen him for a long time. That post made me hard thinking about it though.
     
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    I think most guys are curious at some point. Just like most women are as well.
     
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    I think it's really ALL men are just not all are secure enough to admit it due to our culture.
     
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    I am a story believer that no one is totally straight.
     
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    I am curious and would love to receive anal by another guy. I am not into sucking though, lol
     
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    Mutual masturbation, oral and rimming, I love the touch feel and the company of another male, anal is a bridge too far, I have tried giving and receiving but I didn't enjoy either.
     
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    Fantasy-wise my curiosity goes to a very passable ladyboy. In that case top, bottom, giving and receiving oral. I fantasize about some of those latin trannys sometimes. But i know that would never happen in real life for me... plus not sure i could actually go through with it.

    Other than that if i was in a mmf and had both of them on their knees id let him suck my cock.
     
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    I think being a top and being sucked might be something I would try. Although anal with fingers or dildo does feel pretty good.
     
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    My kind of geek.
     
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    Most, perhaps. All? Definitely no.
     
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    At my age I am still curious but not the least bit interested in other males. I find I am easily aroused -mmmm :p
     
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    My bi urges were rekindled from my youth when I watched my wife be filled by an old college friend. I had never had any desire for him from years before but when I watched him bring her to repeated orgasms and heard her going on about his " big dick" I just wanted to suck it. It was right there. In the years after I've had two experiences where I met guys that made me hard. That had never happened before in any setting much less a business setting. Tall kinda fem slim guys that got way to close and made contact with me purposely. Never acted it out though.
     
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