still have a healthy relationship with the former spouse. I use former, cause she is not my X. X means crossed out. We have two kids. And they can not be Xed out. And neither can the love that what was there. And still is. I only asked this cause, LMarie knows and has spent time with JEllen. It is odd, that this happens, but it seems to work. And I know her former husband. Not as a person to hang out with, but can still like him. And to add, I still am with JEllen's family and she is with mine. Anybody else have this work out?