If a guy likes to lick pussy he's not gay, right?

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  1. scar69

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    What are the chances a guy is closeted gay or bi if he likes going down on women?
     
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    Just because a man may enjoy that one sexual activity does not preclude the fact that he may (or may not) be a bi-/homosexual. The same as if a woman who identifies as bi-/homosexual may enjoy performing oral sex on a man. Ultimately that is decided by his greater preference when it comes to sexuality/romance. It may move him more towards the heterosexual range on the Kinsey Scale, but it is not a definite answer. It would be like determining a man is not heterosexual if he enjoys an activity like pegging, prostate stimulation, or multi-partner sex involving other men as well as women.
     
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    Mittimer? Is that you?....
     
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    And the award for most Mitt like response, goes to.....!!!
     
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    And I believe that's the highest compliment one can be paid here...
     
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    I take that as a compliment - I admire Mittimer greatly. :D
     
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    It was intended as such
     
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    The moderators on this site need to stop ppl I blocked from replying to my posts, I just requested they start doing it
     
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    D'aaawww! Thanks, scar69. :rolleyes:
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    I don't think you can block people from replying to your thread but if you blocked them, you shouldn't see their comments unless you click "show hidden comments" (or something like that).
     
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    It's a public forum on the internet. You don't want replies then don't post. You can't block people from replying to your posts. There's also no mods here.
     
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    I know I got replies cause it says "show ignored content" but I can't see the replies cause they're from ppl I blocked, so they shouldn't b replying at all
     
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    You obviously don't know how to use the ignore button. Don't hit show ignored content if you don't want to see it.
     
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    Because we ALL have access to your blocked list... Why don't you tell us who you don't want to hear from and I'm sure we'll all be glad to oblige.
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    Ohhhhh,, yeah.... Im sure its me...i had forgotten about scar. Scar has been making normal contributions lately so I kinda forgot about the rash of shit we dished out during the ass rash thread.. My mistake for posting on your thread scar.
     
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    This (scar's original few posts/messages/&c) is what happens when you make a reputation for yourself.

    It's really damn hard to change people's perceptions... Trust me, I know - I'm a professional.
     
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    With the greatest respect I do not think this question is really relevant. IMHO oral sex is part of sexual activity between people who love each other and is done to give pleasure to each partner. By definition a homosexual act is performed by members of the same gender. So the simple answer to this question would be "No".
     
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    Here's the thing about what you said (as I understood it)...

    By saying "No, that man is NOT bi-/homosexual because he enjoys performing oral sex on a woman" then that would just as easily make the argument that he IS bi-/homosexual if he participated in a sexual situation involving both male and female participants (i.e. a MMF or MFM encounter). In such a situation he would inevitably be in sexual contact with another man - which would therefore make him bi-/homosexual.

    Does being involved in any sexual activity involving someone of the same sex automatically define an individual as being bi-/homosexual?

    Would a man then be defined as bi-/homosexual if he enjoys something like anal stimulation - an activity that is largely associated with and defined as being homoerotic in nature?

    What about instances of sexual experimentation/exploration? Do "one-offs" factor into the final "answer" to a person's sexual identity?

    Defining a person's sexuality based off of what sexual activities they enjoy is an unfair assessment of that individual - especially if you allow only one activity of all the various activities they may/may not participate in to be the Deciding Factor. Doing so takes no account of their overall preference towards men/women in both sexual and romantic matters.

    Suggested quick Wiki reading:

    Kinsey Scale (on Wikipedia)
    Klein Sexual Orientation Grid (on Wikipedia)
     
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    heh my turn Im the only self elected Mod here and my input is this..... :D

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    Wait! We can self-elect to Moderator?

    Then I self-elect myself to Lord Moderator!
     
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