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Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by nyxx, Mar 11, 2011.

  1. nyxx

    nyxx New Member

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    well, my gf and i were talking the other day about playing around, foreplay. we picked up these scented massage oils, was alright, we tried the whipped cream, chocolate strawberry deal.

    what are some other ideas for messing around?
     
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    You mean for spicing things up??
    Have her do a striptease for you,massage each other,some light spanking,tie each other up,blindfold and tease each other with different objects like a feather,watch a erotic porn movie together,try sex out in public,
    get some sex furniture or a door sling,go to a swanky hotel...one with mirrors on the ceilings and heart shaped jacuzi's,talk dirty,role play with costumes...
     
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    Personally, I discovered I love to be tied up. We grabbed 2 belts and he tied my hands to the headboard. It was incredible!

    We do experiment with creams and lotions but he says that too many of them give him indigestion. And he says he likes the way my skin tastes as is. To each his own.

    Another thing that is pretty cool are the candles that you can burn and pour the wax onto each other. They don't burn as hot as a regular candle so it doesn't harm the skin. Combine that with being tied up...oh jeez, turning myself on now. Can't wait till hubby comes home tonight! ;)
     
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    Tie her up and blindfold her, take your time and tease her, use toys if you both are okay with them but don't jump into the real serious and intense right away, build it up, make sure she won't need the washroom for a while before you start, also if like my ex, being cold acted on her bladder, keep the place warm enough for her. She could tie you up too.
    Try a bit of ice too, acting up fantasies or role plays. If it's a pretend rape, some women like it, have a safe word that means she really wants things to stop or be less rough, otherwise in the play she begs you to stop but it's only a play unless the safe word is used. Maybe you are a cop and she gets out of a ticket by using sex to convince you not to give a ticket.
     
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    thanks

    i tied her up on tuesday, was her birthday. then i blind folded her and messed around with her with some ice cubes, feathers and other interesting objects. she loved it.
     
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    How about doing role-plays?

    Examples:

    You could be a burglar and catch her in the shower

    Student-Teacher Role-play

    Boss-Employee Role-play

    Master-Slave Role-play
     
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    My GF blindfolded me and tied me up once. Then she left for the day, she said it was some kind of extended foreplay and it would lead to hot sex...I was excited at first but after being tied up for a few hours with nothing happening I became suspicious, she could have at least left me a snack and the remote.........
     
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    My wife did something similar, except she didn't leave me for the day. Instead, she masturbated in front of me. Though I couldn't see, I could hear, and she knew it would drive me crazy.
    It did lead to some really hot sex.
     
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    You could maybe try sex games. My wife and I like to play those sometimes. A few good ones are dirty minds, xxxopoly, and also some truth or dare cards. Anyways, there are some ideas.