[Ask a Girl] ideas to please wife please

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  1. justaniceguy

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    Hyer ladies, me again...lol.....my wife went to England just under 2 weeks ago to visit her family and yes hence why Ive been on here so much as I lead a sorrowful life, Im bored I suppose....aaargh.......I miss her and she will be back in a days time....yay........I want to please her when she gets back, and to lure her in bed, but I dont want to be that typical man soon as she gets in to jump straight on her and to get her into bed like that..........May I have some suggestions please, I know this sounds silly but I really want to do this right for once in my life and to give her something good........THANK YOU........
     
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    Well, let's see. A clean house is numero uno for a happy beginning. You could also break out your cooking skills and make a nice meal that's not too complicated. Oh! The toilet seat in the down position will get a smile. Your laundry? Is it done? How about a project you may have started eons ago that's not quite finished? Have you washed the car lately (that includes the inside too)?

    Does she garden? If so, maybe a new flowering plant? Or a small herb garden.

    I can think of, oh, about 100 things she might like! Like new lingerie with shoes and a few accessories to match. Maybe a new sex toy. A swing would be fun for both of you.

    I wish you a happy homecoming! Please let us know how it turns out.
     
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    thanks for that, haha, ive done the washing, cleaned the house......even cleaned the big rug in the living rm.........
     
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    all women are going to be different. if sluttyfairy were gone for a couple days or weeks....i would bascally push her to the floor and "take her" the second she walked thru the door...almost raping her...but we both know that she would want that response from me, and would actually be expecting it....

    i would however, make sure i was raping her on a clean floor... in a clean hallway...next to the just cleaned kitchen.....:D
     
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    I agree, the house better not look like it was a bachelor pad for two weeks. You might want to have the refrigerator restocked too. And make sure her garden doesn't look like it was ignored. Just let her come home to a house where she can feel that she can relax and unwind after her trip. Greet her at the door with an attentive hug and kiss. Tell her you missed her. Give her time for a nice bath. Cooking for her would be nice. Have the bed made very nicely. I have to assume she'll get the idea.
     
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    again thanks for the comments, probably get all this done and nothing at the end of it.....Just my luck.......Actually wish me luck...pmsl
     
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    I read comments about a clean home. YES, a big turn on.
    Dishes and laundry done, bed made, floors, garbage ..... done. NO TV!
    She may be tired, so maybe she will want, maybe she won't want sex.
    Jet lag and airport time you know. Prepare a light and easy meal, some music, not loud, maybe candles, massage, wine if she likes.
    Don't be too much in her face so to speak, give her time to tell you about her time away but at the same time give her little clues, like kisses on the shoulders, caresses, letting her know you missed her. Things that worked for me anyway before.
     
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    yer cheers for that, good vibes from you guys, im gunna all of what you said, if I dont get my oats at least I wont get nagged at....pmsl...
     
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    Greet haer with a smile and tell her how much you've missed her. You'll be sunk to the nuts in minutes.
     
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    woe, hope you right, been busy doing everything in the house, cleaning, gardening, washing....
     
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    Sod that. That's her job. Just tell her you missed her.
     
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    Spot on 339943, and I think the message here is to do everything to make her feel cared for and loved, and then let the sex part be her idea. Did anyone mention red roses? This may sound old fashioned, but if a nice bouquet is the first thing she sees when she walks in the door, it will make her feel wonderful :)
     
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    ...with freshly laundered clean sheets using fabric softener.
     
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    red roses, she aint that romantic, she will say what you after...lol...
     
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    Better not risk it then :eyes
     
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    woe guys and girls, she will soon be here....recapping if Ive missed anything out.....DONE ALL THIS, she will more than likely be tired after the flight.....Do you think if I were to offer a massage that will relax her, you know what flights are like
     
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    Maybe giving her the hint will work, hubby knows better.
     
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    Offer the massage. Use candles and towels and the oil.
    I am a what-if guy, not being negative: what if she doesn't feel like it.
    Take it in stride, she will remember the gesture anyway.