Okay, I have never been to a chat room before or left a message, certainly not like this. But I am wondering about a real fantasy that I have. I really want to ask my husband if he would like to try anal sex. I am not sure how to bring the subject up, and I would just die of shame if he got disgusted by the idea of it. I think it would add another facet to out relationship, and I think I would really like it. I just do not know how he would feel about it. Do guys really think about doing it, and would they be turned off if their wives asked them for it? How would you ask? And, is this weird for me to think about??