So, first off, i'm not taking any part of my sex life for granted, i appreciate and love everything she gives to me and what i give to her. But, when my lady gives me a blowjob, she's kinda mellow with it. It's simply just up and down kinda slowly.. she doesn't seem really enthusiastic about it, but she still likes to do it. I don't ask her to do it, like if she's having her period or missed a day on the pill she'll voluntarily go down on me even if we're not heading towards it.. So, what can i say that won't be awkward, and what's the right time, to get her to do it more enthusiastically. because i can't get off when she does it, i usually will have to do some of it.