I want to watch...=/

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by misspsiphi, Nov 30, 2010.

  1. misspsiphi

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    Hello I am clearly new to sex forums....
    Very open to structural criticism...

    So lets get to the point I am a newly wed and my husband and i have a wonderful sex life... I have recently had fantasies about threesomes with another woman and watching my husband have sex with another woman while i pleasure myself. I am very comfortable with my sexuality so is he. The fantasy is getting increasingly stronger. i want to know if anyone has done either as a married couple and if they think it is detrimental to a relationship.

    I am very open, just be serious for me tho no rude comments please and thank you.

    Look forward to answers :)

    ~Misspsiphi
     
  2. Hot Wheels

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    Firstly, welcome to SF.....:D
    I can't see any problem with what you are proposing.....so long as you are both comfortable with it and are careful in your choice of a third party.


    I have deleted your double post in the relationships forum as we don't encourage double posting here.....:)

    Enjoy SF.....:welcome
     
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    yea sorry saw that this would be a better place to post still trying to figure this whole forum thing out :) wont do it again thank you :):)
     
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    I *thought* I had replied to this post.. now I see there was a double posting LOL


    and welcome misspsiphi :D
     
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    Welcome to SF. We have a few members that have some experience with what you are thinking about. You should be able to get some good help from our local kinksters.
     
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    Welcome, you have definately come to the right place, all my friends here really helped me work through all my sexual stupidity!!

    Am I considered a kinkster?? My husband and i just started exploring the threesum scene. We went up and down whether it would cause a problem between us and it did take some soul searching and a couple of upsetting nights of me crying about the thought of him rubbing all over another women, but I am completely unaprehensive about it now, although we just had our first threesum MFM recently, I really am looking forward to doing it again(there is a thread I started about it) and posted much discussion about the third person issue. So far the only contact we have had with a third person that was female was very straight hot tub fun after she and I got into our suits then she went on a hot rod ride alone with him and he needed help with his stick shift(lol). Anyway, read the posts , there are plenty and PM me anytime at all.
     
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    So for all of you who were helping me out with my dilemma... I got it figured out I talked to my hunny last night for a long while then decided to look at our local swingers clubs one club had a chat room where I met a very nice lady who made me feel very comfortable needless to say we are gonna do it and I can't wait neither can my husband!!! ;) thanks to all for your input and I will update after the big night ;p
     
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    I have the same fantasy but other way around with my SO...Hope it works out for you. I think it's a very hot scenario. Are you going to just watch or will you be joining in any?
     
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    have fun :D
     
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    Will probably join :drool
     
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    Very lucky husband
     
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    I know right :D:p
     
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    Oh, man o man, cant wait to hear all about it. I am SOOOOOO excited for you!!!!!
     
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    Thanks hunny!! i never thought i would be this excited the coolest part is she is a cougar and she is HOTTT SUPER HOT!

    I think that's cool because my husband has always wanted to sleep with a cougar again and here's his chance!!
     
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    We're a very understanding and open community :) we don't tolerate any sort of ugliness towards posters who just ask a question as long as the OP is respectful of others. Granted we'll disagree from time to time, but we either keep our opinions to ourselves or we express them without judgement
     
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    Kermit,
    Is that a pre-emptive strike?
     
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    I thought he was just addressing this by the OP:
     
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    Totally i didnt take it as being yelled at im a good girl....

    Sometimes;)
     
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    I dont' quite understand the preemptive strike comment...but you're right HR, i was addressing the OP on that very section just to reassure her.