I will tell you the story and I was wondering what the guys were thinking on this one. Now I am a little mad about the situation, so I will try to be nice. I wake up and get on top of my guy who I love very much. I stay on top for a few minutes and then get off (might I add we both have clothes on). I give him a little hand but stop. I'm being left out of the equation. I put my hand at his side and he tries to grab my arm for me to continue. I'm new so I am hoping I'm wording this correctly. I snatch my hand back and immediately say "isn't this suppose to be equal?". I've been with my guy a while now. He immediately gets up and goes outside saying "your a piece of work!" and I reply "well it's not all about you." he replies back "well if that were the case I deserve 500 Blow jobs!". Now I have been with my guy almost 5 years. We are engaged to be married within lets say... a couple of years when we find ourselves settled in after schooling and we both have good jobs. Maybe I am an odd one, but do guys not consider with women such as myself that we don't get to climax with just sex? I don't know what else to say, it was rude and inconsiderate. I'm pretty pissed and to say the least he isn't getting any tonight. Like I said maybe I am one in a million but I need more than just sex to get things going. I normally don't climax at all with a little foreplay and sex either. So what do you guys think... do you think in general you don't really care if she gets there and you do? Where is the imbalance of things?