I want to eat a creampie but......

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  1. Amateur Nudist

    Amateur Nudist New Member

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    my wife tends to think that cum is gross. Needless to say she won't taste it herself. Any ideas on how I could go about doing a creampie with her without her thinking I'm a freak?
     
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    trouble is you're a freak. welcome to the freak club :)

    Hangups like that are tough to crack. I wish I had words of wisdom for you, but I do not.

    Maybe in time.
     
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    Do not pressure her. Enjoying blowjobs is an acquired taste that doesn't happen overnight.

    The best way to go (speaking for myself now) is to use the whole day as foreplay doing tiny little things to turn her gradually on. Kissing on the neck, "umm-ing" at the sight of her, the "sex-look" goes a long way too, stroking down her back and to the ass, texting her a cute little hinting message... all those little things during a course of a day. Get creative with it too.
    I like to be "played" like that... almost like an instrument. At the end of the day she should be so well warmed up that she's gonna rip off your clothes when you walk through that door after work. Do this over a period of time and bit by bit her walls will come crumbling down. It takes patience but you have GOT to let her think that SHE is the one doing this of her own free will... not because you're pressuring her into it.

    Play her, make her feel sexy - and you just might find that hidden freak we all have :D
     
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    I've eaten my wife after coming in her...I have to say, my own cum mixed with her secretions was quite a sweet taste! Dude, one though is to just do it...she might be totally turned on by it while you're doing it. Kiss her on the mouth afterwards so she can taste herself and you. And tell her ahead of time exactly what you're going to do..."I'm going to eat my cum out of your pussy, then kiss you so you can taste my cum and your own pussy...does that turn you on?". If you show her the freak in you, you might very well release some of the freak in her!

    And, +1 on what Vanja said above.

    BassDude
     
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    I'm going to respectfully disagree with the posters above me. If you want to foster mutual admiration and a strong, healthy emotional connection between you and your partner, it's vital that you respect your partner's sexual boundaries (and vice versa). In other words, follow the Golden Rule of Sex: Would I want my partner to do this to me? To put in into a context you can relate to, think of a sex act that totally disgusts you. Now imagine that your partner gets turned on seeing this sex act depicted in porn and would like to try it out with you. You probably wouldn't mind a request to try it, so long as it was worded in a respectful, manipulation-free manner and your partner let you know that whatever you decided was fine by them. Now imagine your partner begging and pleading, pouting, whining, or trying to cajole you into doing this thing you find utterly repulsive. It would probably leave you feeling at least somewhat resentful...and resentment is one of the worst toxins in a marriage (or any partnership, for that matter). Resentment eats away at the emotional bond between parters, it diminishes libido in women (because there's a psychological component to sex for us), and it can lead to passive-aggressive behavior on the resentful spouse's behalf, which can lead to bigger and more cumbersome problems within the relationship.

    In short, just ask if she'd like to try it and if she shows any sign of reluctance whatsoever, just drop it and leave it to fantasy, where it can do no harm. We love and admire people when they respect our boundaries--it's one of the best gifts you can give to your marriage.
     
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    Thanks to all for their comments.

    Bluesy - I think you've probably hit the nail on the head although I can see both the "ask and see what she says" and the "just do it" ways both possibly working.

    I guess I'll just wait until the opportunity presents its self and decide then ;)
     
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    Ya know....as usual, Bluesy has the best words of wisdom. Definitely don't do anything that creates resentment in your relationships...that will ALWAYS come back to haunt you, I've seen it again and again.

    Maybe when you guys are in the throes of passion, you could whisper in her ear "I'm going to eat you after I come in you...does that make you hot?". If it does, then do it...if it turns her off, you're probably best to forget about it.

    Dave
     
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    Nothing is worse than suggesting something in the middle of sex and being turned down. If you listen closely you can almost hear the brakes squealing. LOL

    Sometimes it pays off to just do it though. Although not everyones cup of tea, I had the wife on all fours and was eating her whipped cream covered pussy when I decided I'd lick the cream that had worked its way up to her ass. I gave it a lick and she almost shot over the couch. She asked what I was doing and I simply said "I licked your ass. Did it feel good?" She was hesitant..but said yes. All I had to do was say "Get your ass up in the air again" and was back at it. Now she asks me to do it all the time.
     
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    Oooooh, just reading that line got me all warm and tingly :drool

    You know, of all the sex acts you can "surprise" a partner with (without risking getting slapped afterwards :nerv :lol), I think this is probably one that falls under the heading, "Most likely to be inoffensive".

    Sometimes what disgusts one partner is perfectly fine if the other does it. I've heard of women snowballing their guy's cum to him post-BJ, and then he swallows it because he doesn't mind the swallowing, but she does. So I can easily imagine a woman being A-OK with a guy eating a cream-pie though she might not get off on the concept.

    I'd be interested in hearing how things go.