I Want Some

Discussion in 'Member Introductions' started by WantingIt, Nov 12, 2010.

  1. WantingIt

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    sex and love from my hubby

    i am a 30 something mummy and happily married and very much in love

    thing is my hubby is not in to sex like he used to be...

    i try n try to get it going but he just not in to it

    so i masturbate a couple of times a week instead.....

    cheers
     
  2. luvbug

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  3. Michellesoldman

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    Welcome to SF, Wantingit.

    Your gonna hear this a lot around here, but the first thing that your going to have to do is talk this out with him. There are most-likely things going on with him that he hasn't let you in on yet. Perhaps it's stress-related. Perhaps he's chronically tired. Perhaps he's just developed a low libido for whatever reason.

    What I'm getting at is there are a gazillion reasons why we all hit slumps sometimes. But we need to sit our partners down and just start talking about them. It may take many discussions to get the issues resolved, also. So try not to be impatient if the first talk isn't completely "productive" in explaining everything.

    But the main thing is talk, talk, talk in a relaxed setting at a relaxed time. If he's open and honest with you, eventually you can resolve this and put countermeasures in place so that you don't end up repeating the same scenario in a year or two.
     
  4. HardRocker

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    Yep, the OldMan is right. I recommend you start a thread out in the General Sex Discussion forum so you will get credits for your post count. Let the wizards of SF have at it. And, welcome to our forums.
     
  5. Dragon_Fire

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    Welcome, WantingIt.
     
  6. Hot Wheels

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    Yep...fill in your profile and start a thread out in the open forums and Im sure you'll get all sorts of advice on how to get around this.....:D

    Welcome to SF wantingit....:welcome
     
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    Welcome to SF!! :)
     
  8. Mittimer

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    Sorry to come in a little late, glad to see you already posting. :) Welcome to the forums.