My girlfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. Our sex live is suffering b/c she isn't really meeting my "needs" in the bedroom. She is the only girl that I've been with that downright refuses to swallow. I really miss the days of oral sex (swallowing included) abd I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how to approach this in a tactical way. Secondly, she is pretty infrequent in grooming her pussy. The closest trim wouldnt pass with a bathing suit. I would like a landing strip but i'm not sure how to approach this is a tactical way that wouldnt crush her feelings. I've already introduced the idea of shaving together and it received no response. Help! I want my great (previous) sex life back....but with this great lady!