I WANT A 3-some!!

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by misspsiphi, Mar 17, 2011.

  1. misspsiphi

    misspsiphi New Member

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    FMF! but we dont have any friends that we can do it with and im sure most of you remember when i said we found someone well that fell through... ugh any thoughts on where to find someone that is safe?
     
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    Wishing I was in Portland right about now, lol.
     
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    did you look up swingers clubs in you area? sometimes some are willing to only do a threesome
     
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    The only "safe" way is getting to know someone rather then picking up someone and putting them through D & D testing.
     
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    added my husband is totally into the idea
     
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    Damn I wished my wife is more like you!

    DAMN! WOW!
     
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    I'm gonna go along with Mittimer...the times I have been involved in these types of situations,it was never planned out,lol.It was always with friends and things got out of hand.
    I'm not like,seriously experienced with it.Just two FMF ones and one MFM one.The FMF were definitely better in my situations:eyes

    Have a party and feel your friends out.Invite the wildest ones
     
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    haha can i cum? plzzz
     
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    Be careful what you wish for.


    You couldn't pay me to have a threesome, not even with the super hot Nurseharley. What I've got is to special, no desire, and no desire to risk it.
     
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    There are online meeting sites.
     
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    With my ex the whole idea scared me and I didn't think I could ever do it just because of the whole risk like backcheck said. I didn't want to lose his devotion and desire to someone else.

    That being said that's gone now anyway lol
     
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    I understand your point i really dont worry aobut losing him... we have talked about it and we both have a ZERO tolerance for cheaters and we have both said we dont want to start over... we have a child we love each other and really are best friends =D
     
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    its allot of fun we have had several now
    if everyone involved knows the rules ahead of time it works out pretty well
    we decided against doing it with friends
    it easer if you just go and do it then the two of you can share your thoughts likes and dislikes later on with out ever having to see that person again if you dont want to
    there are several sites you can join for free find ya a good match that you both agree on and do it we planned it on our terms not his and we had a blast

    honesty and open comunication is the Key in any relationship and this goes for this as well. good luck and let us know how it goes
    oh and if it doesent feel right its not trust your gut reaction
     
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    The wife and i had spoken about the idea of MFM idea (Mine actually not hers) and i think it would be fun but the moon and stars would have to be aligned perfectly cause there's alot of variables due to being married that would have to be taken into consideration.. Like knowing someone that you wouldnt see all the time, clean and trustworthy etc.. eh.. maybe someday.. i mean if she was into FF i would be more than happy to just sit and watch =D
     
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    I have often fantasized about that too, but alas, my wife won't even discuss it.
     
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    my gf and i have been kickin around that idea for quite some time now..but have decided to just trust our intincts for when the time is right for "us"...we did find a swingers site called swinglifestyle...it may be useful for u. it just puts u in contact with like minded folks...best of luck.
     
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    so your preference is straight I believe, thats interesting, is the other female more for your husband or more for your curiosity.......If for both of you, then put some kind of advert stating other female wanted for fun with husband and I but also posibly straight but female curious......I think in this situation you may get sincere replys!!