i'm a 19 male and i have a pretty small penis. NOT THAT SMALL, about 4-1/2" or so. Ive been kinda despressive avbout it and that i would never be able to really please a woman. But i wanna truely hear your opinions on size and maybe help me see that it don't really matter? I mean i can admit it to my guy friends, but no one else. except for online as well.