I told him I might break up with him

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  1. luvsmusiccm

    luvsmusiccm New Member

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    His response was we'll figure it out. right now we're just friends with benefits. maybe he likes me more than I think

    The reason it might get complicated because I'm helping him financially.
     
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  2. Alwayslearningsex

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    Yup, getting complicated, not sure what to say.
    How you feel for him? How he feels for you? How long have you been helping him that way? I know he's only a FWB for you. Careful about being taken advantage of. I don't know the guy but you hear about such things.

    Things to consider. Probably better to cut the losses if it's a strain, if things are not serious. Time for a good talk.
     
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    WHy are helping him financially? He can't support himself? Sounds like you're getting taken for a ride....with your wallet.
     
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    I hate when that happens. I've been taken advantage of before, where she only liked me cause i had a job and was paying her bills. Though last time i saw her she touched my chest when we departed, though honestly i was was trying to be nice, she owes me a shit load of money not to mention the stuff that went missing at her house. Only time i ever want to see that cunt again is if she has a thousand dollars in her hand, and that's not including any of the bills.
     
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    In my experience money and relationships DO NOT mix. Money is a difficult enough issue if you're both equally contributing to the same pot, but if one has to give all and the other gives nothing...it causes problems. I think you are right in seriously considering your future with this guy. My advice would be to find someone who is more of an equal.
     
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    Did you expect him to say anything else? There are reasons on many different levels that he'd want to "figure things out" with you. Of course he's going to say that.

    What do you want?

    ~Steve
     
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    Umm, the OP has been banned, so there's no use in giving her advice. :ugh