I think my V Card is set to expire

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  1. Obsidian

    Obsidian New Member

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    Basically, next Saturday. I'm going to visit this girl who I've been talking to at college. We've known each other for about 4 years. But have recently said we have feelings for each other.

    So she invites me up, and by knowing her. She will want to get wasted. Last time we got thrower together we ended up in bed. But she passed out before we did anything.

    I'm kinda feeling lucky about this coming weekend. I'm 19, I'm a virgin. Not by choice. It's just never happened. I'm a very attractive guy. Just very inexperienced with girls.

    My question is. I want to please her. What's important is that I last and that she enjoys it.

    Any tips on how to do so. I'm nervous. I don't want to finish 30 secconds into it.


    Any help for my first time would be appriceated. Thanks
     
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    Tip: Let her know you're a virgin, especially if you know she isn't. She'll know to work with you. Trust me, It's not all just in and out, and it's definitely not like in the porn's.

    Of course, best tip of all. Relax and have fun. :)
     
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    Have a few drinks to relax. Maybe play a game and turn it sexy so the flirting happens. You want chemistry it will make you both more comfy.

    Once you finally get to action don't worry about blowing too quick, if you are gonna be there a while you can do it again. And probably a little longer. Try to pick up on her body language and reactions. If your doing something and you notice she's into it continue on and try to be consistant.

    Good lick man. I'm sure hope it will work ou. For ya!
     
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    Thanks everyone. I'm not so confident in telling her I'm a virgin. I don't think she expects I am. And I don't want it to affect how she feels about me. And what could happen that night
     
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    While some drinking can relax, some are the kind it "relaxes" too much,
    be careful that way. Since you are a virgin most likely you just won't last long, no choice but go through this phase, so telling her should help since she has feelings for you. Maybe she is nervous too. Show your vulnerability and tell her you are a virgin, and nervous. Take that step since she likes you. Also if both of you don't get too wasted, especially her. If you go to bed that night, about the next morning?
    Ever thought of having a place overnight?

    As to what can happen that night, let it happen, just enjoy touching her, have her touch you, kissing, just go with the flow, don't ever script your moments in advance, enjoy the moment, maybe she can help you.
    MAKE SURE she is lubricated good before you go in.
    So you won't last long, learn to use your hands too after you are done.
    Ask her to show you her clitoris and g spot.
    Don't go straight for the clitoris, go all around and easy at first, keep it gentle as long as possible, it's a sensitive thing.
    Maybe go on proper sites to learn female anatomy and how to.
    Porn is visual but not educational - on that note, better avoid it.