i think im going to doit...

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  1. amanda14

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    ive been texting my bfs friend all week..i always get wet when he comes around...anyway we been texting(dirty text)..well i ended up sending him a video of me laying on my bed rubbing my clit...and then we texted somemore...l told him i been wanting to fuck him ...and he said he would if i really want to ....i love my bf ireally dont know what to do
     
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    Oh, just go and do it, then. Doesn't matter if you love your boyfriend, all that matters is that you get your pussy fucked, right?
     
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    Your boyfriend supports you. You owe him honesty.


     
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    If you love your boyfriend, then do what you think he would want you to do. What's so hard about that?
     
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    Cheating is never the right thing to do, but breaking up with someone isn't always the easiest thing to do either.

    It usually ends badly and someone always gets hurt. It's a very tough situation, you know it's wrong but the desire can be overwhelming.

    Good luck, if you do it, I hope your boyfriend never finds out and I hope he's not the violent type.
     
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    dont do it.ur bf and is friend is too cloesd.is not good.
     
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    i feel guilty now....but ur right....but so is cowboylover...cuz my bf had sex with me and my friend....so he fucked my friend...i can fuck his....right
     
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    I guess my sarcasm was lost on you, Amanda.
     
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    It would appear so CL.....:eyes
    She just has to decide how important her bf is to her.
    Because I can see trouble looming if her plans go ahead you know.
     
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    This sounds like a little bit too much of a "He did it, so it has to be OK for me to do" attitude. Is this possibly a "revenge" thing?

    Either way, if the relationship is important to you, it would be wise not to go through with it.
     
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    What I don't understand is why would you send your boyfriends friend a video of you rubbing your clit in the first place?? That in its self is wrong in my opinion, and just because your boyfriend slept with you AND your friend doesn't mean that its okay for you to go and sleep with his friend. If he slept with the both of you it means you had agreed to it. But thats my opinion
     
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    Sorry, but Amanda's posts just don't sound right for a mature 29 year old.
     
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    I just think she's trying to justify her lust.

    It's easier from some more than others to resist temptation.
     
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    Can you sext your boyfriends best friend behind his back and say you love him? NO!!!!! do him a favor and tell him you don't deserve him.
     
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    I second that...! The first thing I looked at after reading her post was her age. It just seemed a little wrong to me?
     
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    Talk to your boyfriend. Tell him that you love him but you've been having sexual thoughts about other guys. (This is that honesty that others are harping about) Then tell him that you've been wanting to have sex with other people. Maybe drop the friends name. Now, since you love him, ask if that would be okay. If you are into it, ask him if he'd be interested in a 3-way. You never know, he could be totally into it. It's worth a shot... but it certainly isn't worth ruining BOTH a friendship and a relationship over by lying about it.

    ~Steve
     
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    I find everything the OP is saying a bit...off.
    There is nothing FAIR about what you're going to do. There is a HUGE difference between doing a WILLING 3 way between your man and another woman and going behind his back and fucking his friend.
    If you HONESTLY do it, your relationship will quickly crumble around you. I highly doubt you actually care though.
     
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    <Comment removed by moderator. That was nasty and uncalled for. Only post thoughtful comments.>
     
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    Honestly that seems pretty horrible. Kind of sad actually, think of how your boyfriend would feel.