Is this the "honeymoon phase" or whatever you wanna call it. When we ended , he gave me the guilt trip. Then I took the initiative to get back with him out of guilt and missing him. Since we got back together a few times, he has been more talkative, loving and we even had sex which was waaayyyy out of the blue. He even said "I love you first" when I usually say it first When we are together, he wants to know exactly when I'm working, what my plans are, my whereabouts etc. I don't ever contact him first anymore because I feel like he will go away eventually. He He is an alcoholic. He tells me he doesn't do drugs anymore. His actions/behavior tells me otherwise like wanting money. He knows I'm naive and will believe anything he says I don't think it will get worse because I only hear from him every so often.