Hey there all! New to the board and it looks pretty good. Here's my situation. I'm 34 so not a beginner. I have been a relationship with my girlfriend for the last three years. It started out fantastic! The company, the sex, everything was great. Mostly it still is except that about a year and a half or so ago she got it in her head that I was cheating on her. (I never have) Ever since I have been trying to reassure her in every way I can. It gets so bad sometimes that I can't stand it and we end up breaking up. Usually for a week to a month. We have been split up probably eight times in the past year. The problem is that we are both a mess when we are apart. Then we get back together and it's so good for a while until the old issues start coming out. It's at the point where she doesn't really trust me and I really don't trust her. But we are deeply in love. I keep hoping it will finally be good, but I am losing hope. I suppose it's a stupid question but what do you think? Can something like this ever work or should I give up? Thanks for letting me get this off my chest.