i pee when i come. help.

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  1. ~emm~

    ~emm~ New Member

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    this is a new problem me and my partner have encountered. lately as I've had g-spot stimulation and i approach orgasm i pee, it feels like squirt but it's definitely pee (smells like it and comes from the urethra) sometimes its during orgasm and most times its post orgasm. i can't feel it and my orgasms have also gotten smaller since I've developed this problem. we're 99% sure it's urine. it's quite embarrassing and is knocking my self confidence and I'm scared every time we get down to business.

    note : i have not had this problem before and it's just recently started after being sexually active for 10years +. i never need to urinate before it so i don't understand why.

    any suggestions what this could be or how could i resolve it?
     
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    Emm, I'm not a woman so I may not be qualified
    to answer that question.
    But I have always heard that the kegels exercise is good for that too.

    Hiker
     
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    I'd see a doc about this problem, hun! Good luck!
     
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    From everything I have read on g spot orgasm, it will feel like you are peeing when you are squirting. You should be able to tell the difference from the ejaculate to urine. If it is urine that is a sign that your bladder wasn't empty prior to.

    I don't know if that is much help.

    If you are sure that your bladder is empty and it still happens, go and see your Dr.
     
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    Have you tried peeing in the toilet before having sex?
     
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    and this is a problem because? Ok..ok..I have 3 solutions,
    1) Pee before you have sex
    2) Use a cork
    3) see a doc.

    (go with #3, cork might pop out and hit someone..:D )
     
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    Your very first stop should be your obgyn I bet its just something that sorts itself out though. People do lose control of their bladder, under pressure. I've lost control of myself twice once I was really drunk and the other I was really scared. I don't know if that's relevant only orgasm's can be quite extreme, muscles contract and release, maybe your bladder being one (the bladder isn't a muscle though !! my understanding of human biology is limited so someone speak up if I'm talking rubbish).
     
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    actually this is exactly what happens to my girlfriend. or she claims that she has peed but i reaffirm her that it's immpossible to pee while she's cumming. am i wrong? can she still pee while she is orgasming?
     
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    guys can't pee and orgasm at the same because both come thru the penis

    i don't know how common it it is but some women say they pee a little after sex
     
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    Women can pee and cum at the same time.
     
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    loveit24/7,

    I have been told different and the 2 people who told me that was my female doctor and a female sex therapist,because I was having sex with a woman I was seeing and when she came she soaked me and a big spot on the bed.I never said anything to her about it,but what I went to see my doctor,I asked her about it and after asking me did it have a smell,I said no it didn't,she then told me no a woman can't pee and orgasm at the same time.Well when I when to see this sex therapist,I asked her the same thing and told her what had happened.While showing me a diagram of a woman down there,she told me that a woman can't pee and orgasm at the sametime and the men can't either.She said that if it was pee we would know it,because it will have a smell.