1. I'm a very sweet, caring guy with a good sense of humor -- but a major downfall I feel that I have is my shyness. I'm a fairly shy person when meeting new people, and that shyness is doubled or tripled when I'm first getting to know a rather attractive girl. I'm great over the phone, or on myspace, or text messaging or something -- I think it's because there's that medium between you two, I don't feel as if I can make a total jackass out of myself. But in person, I tend to choke up... Are there any things that you girls love a guy to do/say when you first meet and are spending that time getting to know eachother better over, say, a week after meeting? I will have to take note and work on them, and get more used to doing them even if I think I'll make an ass out of myself. If I have someone to confirm that it won't really make me look like a jackass/it's not hard to accomplish, I'll give it a try... I'll ask my female friends, too... One major reason I ask this is because I'm going to a party tomorrow, and there's a couple girls going who I have a crush on. They don't know that I like them, I've known one since last year and I met the other about a week ago. I would like to find out if either of them likes me, have some fun with them and my friends, and hopefully get a little closer to one of the girls... if you catch my drift I don't expect to go all the way or anything, but a little makeout action or even some oral sex sounds pretty great to me right about now. Thanks for any help you guys/gals have to give... P.S. If I'm ever about to go down on a girl -- it's not smart to be a little buzzed, is it? I've never gone down on a girl before, so I think I'd have to be sober and really "know my way around" in order to fully please her -- which I want to do. Come to think of it, do you know of any good DVD instructional videos that explain some good techniques to make a girl orgasm? I was going to get the idegasms video, but it's $97... if anyone has it, is it really worth that much money?