I need help!

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by ThePicSpoofer, Feb 9, 2012.

  1. ThePicSpoofer

    ThePicSpoofer New Member

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    my name is Jim, i"m a 45 year old gay man and I have always had trouble getting dates, am i really that bad looking?

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  2. HardRocker

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    Nope, look pretty regular to me. Assuming your pic isn't spoofed, it might be something else.
     
  3. Alwayslearningsex

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    If you are like me it takes a lot to finally have someone, so I suggest you do social things like pool, darts, something you enjoy, go online, etc, be exposed - do you do these things already? A stupid question maybe.

    Anyway, doing what makes you meet others.
     
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    A lot has to do with confidence.
     
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    what do you have to loose asking a girl out? Really! what do you have to loose
     
  6. thunderseed

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    Can't see the picture anymore, but it could be the opposite, sometimes people are more afraid to approach those that are attractive. Especially if you don't have that great of confidence in yourself, you may come off as "too good" or unapproachable.
    Anyways I highly doubt it has anything to do with looks. I can almost guarantee you, it is all about charm!
     
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    maybe its cause ur going out looking for it and trying too hard? this is just a suggestion not blowing my own trumpet but one of my friends always asks me why i get more dates than her and why guys approach me, its because i dont go looking for it. My friend is so desperate to meet someone that when she does she ruins it by being too eager. just be yourself and maybe your trying too hard?
     
  8. Barbwire

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    Umm, the dude said he was gay so....