I think my foreskin is tighter than it should be. *Embarrassed* When I have sex with a condom it's fine. But I've noticed that when I don't use a condom (girlfriend is on the pill) I can get a bit sore. It's fine to begin with when she's really moist but after a while I start to notice that my foreskin is causing pain because it's being pulled back too much during intercourse. Afterwards there are usually very small parts on the skin where it's cracked and has become sore. I guess this is because it's pulled so tight. It's really worrying me because it can get in the way of sex. When my girlfriend wants to go on top I sometimes end up worried in case she goes to fast and it hurts. So it can end up turning me off. And we both prefer to not use a condom so I need some advice. Are there any things I can do to help loosen my foreskin? When I masterbate I try to pull it back further and further to try and loosen it but I'm not sure this is making a difference. But it's not so tight to warrant anything drastic like a circumsision. I would really appreciate some ideas from you lot.