Well, within the past 3 years, there has been this girl i've fancied, and it took me awhile to ask her on a date, and she accepted when i finally did, but it took about a year. Over the course of that year, my feelings grew for her, to the point where i considered it that i loved her, because she was the only thing ever on my mind. well now, after the dating and everything, i have gotten over her(or so i feel), yet when i see her, i still want her, but more physically, as in being able to hold her and the things associated with that, but not in an emotional sense. Is this just me still in love with her partially, or is it just me wanting attention from her? This has been on my mind alot, and i feel i need others opinions, which is why i've posted after the help i've seen given out on the site. The relationship was better off as a freindship, which is what we've stayed, but when we dated, she never really wanted me as more then a friend i found out after the relationship. I cooled off for a while, but then after talking with her for awhile and just being friends, i found the feelings arose again. I told her about this, because she had been MUCH friendlier then usual, but again, only loves me as a friend, and nothing else. Now i'm very hard headed, but i just couldn't get over her emotionally until as of late. I finally have, yet have physical urges towards her, but no emotional attachment aside from our friendship. I find myself wanting her body and to be able to just hug her, but not wanting a actual relationship with her. This is very confusing to me, and i need help/advice. So i'm open to anything anyone wants to say, i'm very open minded in trying things at least once. so please help!!!