I am a few days shy of 29 and approaching 9 years of marriage. I have never cheated on my spouse for two reasons: it goes against my own personal values, and I do not think I would be a good canidate for dealing with that type of guilt. However, the last 7 or 8 months I have been wondering what it would be like with another man (on a sexual level). Which, honestly I assumed it would be the other way around especially because I was his first and its only ever been me. He has never given me any reason too believe otherwise. Although I am sure he has had and still has his own thoughts. We have always had a healthy sex life, but there is no denying I crave more sex then he does and he has even mentioned that his buddies at work are suprised at how much he gets it and tease him about it BS ( indication he talks about it). We average about 3~4 times a week and I make sure of it because I do think one important key part of marriage is having and maintaining a healthy sex life. So the sex really isint a problem accept I do often want it increasingly more and now I have the added thoughts of being with someone else. Is this normal for women around my age too experience this? Is it just a common phase? I have already been told by a couples of girl friends that my sex drive is a bit excessive for woman(but who devines excessive). They seemed shocked that we still have sex that often and even moreso that I often want it more than that :eek. I am shocked that they dont.