I've been reading this forum for some time and now I can use your help I’m looking for some advise. I intercepted an e-mail to my girlfriend of 8 years I shouldn’t have seen her e-mail but I did and the damage is done. What I saw was a message from an old boyfriend and her reply that they will be meeting for a romantic evening in a few months when he comes into town. The evening was explained in graphic detail I might add. Should I confront her now or set her up and catch her in the act? Now that I have the e-mail password I can monitor the date time and place. It looks like it will be in late May or early June at this point. I’d rather not let her know that I’ve seen the e-mail and be accused of snooping but this is tearing me up inside. I’ve never liked this guy. Any suggestions?