i need advice, i only enjoy sex when i hurt my gf

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  1. clownmann

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    hi i dont want to be juged for this, more just want to know if anyone has the same sort of kink as me. i love my gf and am very loving and attentive. im 29 and my gf is 25 and we have been together for 6 years. we have a good relation ship in most ways and a good sex life. the only thing is i get more turned on the more i abuse her during sex and i dont mean hitting, biting etc it has to be sexual stuff she doesn't like.

    here's how sex gos most of the time. one of us will instigate it (she doesn't like oral) so i will play with her and make sure im in a position to receive oral. after a bit we will have sex i think i have an above average cock probably just under 8". this is no exaggeration or lie i always make her cum in about 5 min, and now this is where mf fun starts.

    see she can only cum once then it hurts her and she dried up she will tell me this but i ask her to continue (as she loves me she will) and i feel her get dryer and tighter. she tells me it hurts and it just make me want to go harder maybe put a finger in he bum as she hates it, and this continues till i cum.

    im not going to lie there's more anal etc but i just want to know if anyone else likes this or is there any girls that have bf/husbands that do it
     
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    If you both like it, it is good. But if she doesn't stop it.

    No point using ***
     
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    I have to agree with paula, while some of us may not like that, as long as you both enjoy it, it doesn't matter what others do.

    I agree with paula as well with the *** you're on an adult forum. We're all adults here and use works like cum, piss, fuck, tits, pussy, blah blah blah. It's what we do. So as not to confuse others, I suggest using actual words vs asterisks.
     
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    see thats the problem she hates it and to be honest if she liked it i wouldn't, like i said just looking to see if anyone has the same fetish and how they get on with it
     
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    ???

    I realy don't understand.
     
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    it just turns me on so much when sex hurts her and dont get me wrong i still like to please her in bed, also this dosent happen every time we have sex but i never cum harder than if shes in pain.
     
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    As I said, if your both feeling good about it, it is oke.
     
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    i think ita a domination thing i just like knowing shes doing something just for me that she doesn't want
     
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    yep, you desire pain...
     
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    how do u stand on pain i noticed u posted on another tread like this
     
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    what thread?

    go ontopic.
     
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    well... i was with you there for a while, until you got to the "she dries up" part. which to me means she's not turned on by what youre doing...and that would kill it for me...
    i love to inflict a little discomfort tho... mostly just with my size..which isnt all that big but big enough to make her flinch a little. so as i'm fucking her i seem to get more aroused when she is squirming just a bit...i like to pin her hands down and whisper in her ear "how does that feel" "do you like it " when i can tell she's struggling a little to take me...but the best part is , as soon as i start talking shit to her,,,she just gets sloppy wet..which makes me even harder and bigger and...well you get the idea...
    so yeah i like to inflict a little pain, but it would suck if she werent getting off on it. another thing..she never ever reaches orgasm from this scenario.,,but she says she always masturbates to the thought of it the next day...
    she does cum from intercourse tho. but it requires a slow ,deep thrusting from a different angle....uh.. i guess thats kinda irrelevant to this topic tho....(sorry, i got kinda excited)...
     
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    I can tell you about pain your eyes will roll out...

    Nothing mentioned in this thread will do.

    You know nothing about pain.
     
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    :)
     
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    Well, do tell,do tell!!! my gf and i are just "rookies" at this...
    my gf loves the sex and submission site...i dont have it in me to do some of the stuff they do on there...but some of it looks very "fun" ,
    saw a video of a woman in a stockade, that has me looking for a place in the house to build me a stockade...lol...
     
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    :lol you wish...

    No serious, I don't want you to get an attack
     
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    thank you for your concern....always the lady, paula...:D
     
  18. Paula

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    Am I?

    euuhhh..offtopic
     
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    :rofl
     
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    This thread is about pain barbl