I might be crazy.

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  1. Jane948

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    I might be crazy or just annoyed but any time my partner and I have sex its almost impossible for me to be turned on. I'm getting really frustrated and by the time the actual sex comes up I just want it over with. I seriously think there is something wrong with me.

    I don't feel turned on at all with him but when I'm alone I want the sex.

    I'd appreciate any help *freaking out*
     
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    Has that ever occurred with anyone you've been with in the past? Is it something he is doing or not doing to you in bed?
     
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    no we are each others first.
    honestly I'm not even sure how to answer that ... I guess he is being a bit too all over almost trying "complete a mission" when i just need some attention.
     
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    You might do well to tell him this. Of course, be tactful, as feelings could be at stake, but you should really let him know what is going through your mind!
     
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    Is your sex always the same routine/position?
     
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    Actually I've talked to him about it. I don't know if its him or me but we just don't have that spark anymore ... we've been together for 10 years.

    Our sex is pretty regular I guess ... we used to try new things but now we barely bother.
     
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    My first serious realtionship was like that. After a year and a half I was kinda bored. I mean I wanted this girl for 10 years before we dated. When I had it at first it was great then everything was kinda just a routine.
     
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    I feel similarly about my girl. To be honnest, she's the one wearing the pants in the sexual portions of the relationship, and the act just doesn't seem to excite me. I like it when she cums, but her orgasms seem far more intense than mine. I don't know.
     
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    He read the "How to eat Pussy!" thread and OMG I don't think we will be having problems for a while. *celebrates*
     
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    I love a happy ending.[​IMG]
     
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    Another satisfied :sf member. ;) :tup
     
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    Who were you referring to with 'he?'
     
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    Oh my feoncee Vlad :D
     
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    are you tired, stressed about work, or anxious about anything in your life?