A friend of mine told a bunch of us this story recently.. She was at a night club and went outside to snog this guy... So after a while he offers to go down on her (which more and more guys are offering to do in situations like that)... So he says ok but that she's not going to return the favour... So he pulls her panties down and goes to work and it's really good, after a while she orgasms.. She then looks down and sees that's he's wanking himself... she doesn't really have a problem with it and actually lets him continue going down on her till he finishes... At this point she realises that what he's done is wanked himself off using her panties... Now sorry she's told a few of us this story and we all laughed though she seems to think that he crossed some line... He probably thinks he did really well, as she stormed off without even asking for them back... So what do you think some sort of violation or just fair game?